Hey so I recently found out my GF thinks this guy is hot in class and she has already made 'friends' with him. I was wondering what are the chances of this progressing any further seems like they will have lab every week till May. Usually she is reserved but steps up when she see something she likes. But I don't think it will progress much further than some banter in during lab. But I need to know if from someone who has dealt with this first hand.

Been with her for almost 2 years, she spoke to her very good friend about him seems like it was just girl talk and nothing more. She did dig slightly deeper and friended him on facebook and mapped his hometown and how far it is from the college.

I trust her but she is a slightly naive and he has a girlfriend to but he seems like a natural. Its like will she or won't she?

Plus, I wanted to know wat are my steps to keep a close eye on this situation?

If she is going to do something my friend then she is simply going to do it, nothing at all you can do to stop it so dont even try, just dump her the second you find out she has and if she doesn't then you have yourself a good one

In the meantime screw her extra hard, caveman fuck the shit outta her!!!!!!!

Observe and see whats attracting her to this "new guy"

and steal it and use it on her. (update yourself)

Caveman thing is the first thing that came to mind. I am not in her lab and not even on campus for that matter. So as far as the move I wont really be able to steal unless to tell me about them.

She did tell me about an interaction she had with him leaving out the fact that she thought she was thought he was hot. I found this out over hearing a conversation with her friend. My girl and this guy were have some argument over the color of the object on the slide under the microscope. She thought it was one color and he thought it was the another. She walked away and he goes "Where you going come back here" and she thought this was very hot apparently(probably the body language).

I don't think shell do anything, but if she does I have no concrete way of knowing

Up your game. Start cold approaching girls. Get a bunch of girl-friends that like you.

You'll be in a spot where you can get laid anytime you want, and if your girl does cheat on you, it will make minimal damage.

I came to the conclusion some time ago that you are always on borrowed time when it comes to relationships. Maybe she gets bored, maybe she cheat, maybe she dies... one way or another it will end. and the younger you are the higher the chances of that happening. You are wasting your time worrying about what might happen and not focusing on your actual goal.... keep the girl!

being jealous, spying on her, freaking out will not help you reach your goal.

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"They're all selling it for something"
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^ I agree man, its hard to get over all this stuff when you have so much invested. If you keep her your miserable and of leave her your miserable. There had to be some times when thing were simpler.

I remember when I was in college and married guy atleast 10-15 years older than me at this club saw the crazyness and said "I feel bad for the guys that have to pick a wife out of this bunch" now I realize he was talking about me .

Having a your girl be younger than you going to college with a long distance relationship is tough. I feel like I have been keeping my game tight for so long.

Any advice for this relationship, for video chatting, or for when we do see other? I feel like I am running out of things to keep it exciting either I pop the question or peace out.

Distance yourself emotionally. This relationship is ending. Nothing wrong with finding someone attractive, but your gf is ACTIVELY taking steps and is slightly obsessed with him. Doesn't mean she will cheat, but not gf material.

Hey neo thanks for the insight...

Can you please elaborate?

I took her to dinner today and she brought him up, i mean it was relevant to the conversation but nonchalantly she threw him in there. She didn't know I knew a lot more than I do.

When I find girls attractive I clearly tell her about it, she will be like "y are you telling me this?"

trust your gut, keep your friends and family close, keep your enemies even closer.

learn about him, is he a nice guy, is he legit? who he says he is?

find out what makes him so damn interesting.

as for your girlfriend, trust her, but also use common sense

i hope this helps

Skittlepimp

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She's basically obsessed over another guy. Talking about him? Finding him on fb and mapping his hometown? Despite the possibility of cheating, I'd be turned off if my gf's focus was on some other dude for more than a second. If she's so obsessed with him, what does that say about her feelings for you? As I said, nothing wrong with feeling attraction for someone. But she's acting like a groupie.

I believe this is the two year drop symptoms. The past issues are coming up about how the relationship started and such. So either we get thru it or not only time will tell.

Im 34 and my GF is 21, the one before her was 24. I dont get the younger thing being difficult?!? Long distance relationships are a fools errand. Only for desperate men or to keep on the side for when you are face to face...but never a GF! There is no way to keep this fresh. And it sounds like its over. If shes talking about him all the time trust me man, its over and only a matter of time before shes fucking him. Tough pill to swallow but time to move on to something closer to home and real.

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"

Why do you think its over?

Because of the time frame and because shes clearly putting energy into another man and not hiding it. Woman have a way of always having the "next" guy on the side somewhere. Ive seen it first hand...

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"