My best mate does this thing when we're out where he interupts my set and says "You know Jake is single by the way =)", I don;t know if he realises that he fucks up my game when he does this as he's basically saying to the girls that i'm as available as a slut in a whorehouse, but I need a way to neutralise this.

Something like "I am but these girls just don't seem cool enough". Obviously I will talk to him about it and get him to stop if he doesn't realise what he's doing, if he does realise then he's being blocking which isn't cool.

Another thing he does is wander into a set and say "you know Jake has a donkey dick", its not a DHV if it comes from his mouth as they don't know him, if it came from another source inside their group it would be more intriguing to them, but it just has the same effect of making it seem like thats all I want from the girls (sex) and making them become wary of me. Admittedly, I'm proud of the size of my manhood and am bigger than most guys but this is creating unrealistic expectations, and also giving them all the power.

Not really sure how to counter this one. Any advice would be great thanks.

Cheers Jake.

Mostly just ignore him and focus on talking to the girls. Treat him like you would any other guy who's trying to throw off your game. Give the girls a look like, "yeah, he's always like this", then carry on with whatever you were talking about.

-Wolf

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Since you feel like he's fucking up your game, even if it's not directly AMOGing or DLVing you, I'd still respond with a comeback. That way it shows the girls you can easily deflect negative comments, and it will neutralize him.

If he tell them you are single, you respond with "Yea, me and three quarters of the other guys in this bar."

If he says you are well hung, you respond with "Don't be jealous just because you got a baby dick."

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Hey,

Used the "me and 3 other guys thing at the club the other night" worked well, seemed to flow really well.
Thanks for the advice, if you have your own blog can you PM me the link mate, your style seems to be very congruent with the style I am building for myself at the moment.

Cheers Jake