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I don't even know where to begin.
first off i'm 18 and my girl friend is 17 a junior in highschool. I'm a senior in highschool.
note:my girl friend is known as a whore.
So I've been dating my girl friend for about 6 months now with a month break let me explain. So At the beginning of the relationship everything was good for a month. Then I start hearing from people that she is cheating on me. So I brought it up to her and she said that isn't true blahh blahh blahh. So I trusted her that she didn't cheat on me. We had sex once in this during the 1 month period of dating. Then next month I start hearing that she is cheating on me some more. So I keep bringing it up to her and she just wont say that she did. So I trusted her.
Then Christmas comes around and I bought her a $400 neckless considering the fact she cheated on me 4 days before christmas and my birthday. Because she left her facebook logged on my computer and I seen all of the messages with guys like her saying
her"hey i'm home alone bored"
guy"ohh dammnn"
her"you should come over i'm bored"
guy"don't you have a boyfriend"
her"no we broke up"
by the way we never broke up. when she said that.
Then there was another message of her talking to a guy and telling him that she doesn't have feeling for me anymore. And then they start talking about his sex life.
Note: She has cheated on me more then we had sex. we had sex 6 times.
so I broke up with her a month ago because I had proof that she cheated one me.
When I broke up with her every week should would have some kind of excuse just to see me like:
"come get your clothes at my house."
"come get your moms pan" I told her to keep it and she came over a week later just to drop it off.
NOW: So she texted me the other day and said she had to talk to me it was really important. So I took about 2 hours to respond. She came over to my house I went in her car. And I said
"what do you wanna talk about"
her"I think i'm pregnant"
me"are you serious?"
her"yes"
me"did you take a test?"
her"no"
me"well lets go to walmart and get you a test"
her"no i don't want to."
then she starts tearing in her eyes
me"whats wrong"
Then she comes on my shoulder and starts crying on how she misses me.
Then I told her I cant trust her anymore. And she understands that. Then next thing you know I'm dating her the next day, i'm sleeping over at her house on a school night. and i'm just thinking in my head why am I doing this. Why did I go back so fast. Now it's to late. But she wrote me a letter to me about how she is sorry and really cares about me etc. And I just realized I went back to her pretty easy so she will try pulling something like that again. so I just text her 20min ago saying.
"It was nice spending time with you last night and I appreciate the letter you gave me but after reading it and really thinking it through you hurt me, and that's something i'm really not beyond yet. so for now the best thing for me and you is to take a break and resume our communications on April 1st. Don't call me, don't text don't write me letters. it still makes me sick., I cannot believe the emotional stress and pain you put me through. so this isn't something that can go away in one month. All i could think about last night when you gave me that letter and when I was sleeping next to you was all the other guys that have laid in that bed and had sex with you while you where dating me made me sick. This is something that's gonna take time. I need time to find somebody who loves me for me. You had your chance now it's mine. I wish you all the best but at this time it's not with me. Please don't try to contact me because it will only make it worse. I'm still trying to get over what you did to me.
PLEASE do NOT CONTACT ME. I'll contact you."
I said April 1st for no reason. just because it's April fools day haha.
She was also saying this is gonna be her first Valentines day with a boyfriend. But now we are not dating we are on a break. Should I still get her the teddy bear i wanted to get and roses and chocolate and leave it at her front door and not talk to her still?
What do you guys think I should do in this situation
1. So your girl is a known whore, and you date her? This was doomed from the start...
2. Dude, 6 months in is STILL the "beginning", if you're hearing rumors that your girl is fuckin around in the stage of the relationship where she should be all over your dick like white on paper, than you know this is bad...
3. So basically you're trying to buy the pussy? I can think of 400 other things a high school senior would want to spend $400 on, why the FUCK would you spend it on a girl? You're 18 years old! Ugghhh, this is real "simp" behavior, please go to urban dictionary and look that up. She obviously had no respect for you to cheat, now she has EVEN LESS respect for you...
4. I don't know how you operate, but the way I am, a girl has a 1 strike policy. If she cheats its done, there's 7 billion people in the world, MORE THAN HALF are women. Just by going by the numbers, I don't understand why anyone would stick around with a girl who cheats. Why hold yourself down with a girl who already proven she doesn't care about you when there's over 3.5 BILLION options out there. Another analogy that my friend always says is this "Why throw the ball to the receiver who is triple covered, out of bounds and hungover from the night before when you can hit Jerry Rice in the wide open post?"
5. You fell for the oldest trick in the book for women with low self esteem "I have something really important to tell you and only you..." and you messed up for even responding to it. Lemme translate that from girl speak to real english "No guy is currently hitting on me and my fragile ego is entirely determined on how hot everyone thinks I am, I know! I'll text (insert your name here), he's crazy about me!" And of course, you fed into her game
6. And there you go, she pulls the "I'm pregnant" card and you go back to her?!?!?!?!?! Dude, come on, have some self respect. You got the game all types of fucked up. At best, this girl is a jump off, she is WILD and you're feeding her to do so. You're letting her get away with wild crazy stuff.
My advice, BAIL BAIL BAIL, delete her from your phone, delete her from facebook, twitter, all that, and don't look back.
But it's ok man, even when something negative happens (you getting screwed over by your GF), there's always a positive in everything. Think of this as a learning experience, even though society tells us men to not judge a female's past or reputation, ignore society b/c that's just dumb. Of course you should judge a female's reputation, who wants to date the girl everyone already had a piece of? You don't wanna walk down the street with your girl and you have a lingering thought in the back of your head "why did that guy look at us all funny? did he bang her too?". That might sound crazy, but it'll stay in your head, and it won't leave, the more you try to think about it, the more it will be on your mind. And it's good you're learning this at 18, I know guys who are 20, 30, 40+ years old who are stuck dealing with all kinds of drama trying to wife up a woman who is a nut case like your ex (just take a look at a couple Jerry Springer or Maury episodes if you want some examples). Also, you dodged a HUGE bullet with the "I'm pregnant" thing. Imagine if you actually got her preggo? All this PUA stuff would be a wrap for you. You think a bad wingman is a cock block? You haven't seen shit until you see a psycho slut baby momma, their entire mission is to block your cock lol. And for her to pull that, you probably were banging her raw, and since she cheated, she basically played russian roulette with your dick, that's an STD waiting to happen.
Anyway, chalk this girl up as a loss in your record book, nurse your wounds and take notes. Even Tom Brady throws an interception every once in a while, but at least you're not completely out the game. Cause NOTHING takes you out the game faster than an STD (torn ACL), baby's momma drama (achilles tendon rupture) or just dealing with unstable women throwing you off your game (multiple concussions). If you're looking for a relationship, get a relationship type of girl.
CHAT
