Thanks for the input. I literally just thought of this after reading some posts on this thread. I adapted the one post about approaching a girl and saying she is sexy. Rather than stating that as a fact I use it as a qualifiier, as if she needs to prove it.

I'm going to field test this as soon as I get the chance. Will update.

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Awesome. I'm definitely going to try it asap.

I prefer direct approach, as I'm more comfortable doing it. It's just that I've experienced more number closes off of indirect. But this will definitely help. I like the aspect of her having to qualify herself almost from the beginning.

I feel like the final hurdle with a direct approach is to get her into that mindset that you are her boyfriend for the night. I feel like kino is the key. Get the lighthearted fun talk done but before it dies down throw in some kino and then she will feel as if you're part of her group.

A kino method I used to success was going for the hand when the conversation is nice and energetic. I asked her if I could do a magic trick with her hand. Like palm read. She agreed and gave me her hand but I simply just proceeded with whatever conversation we were having. After a little she realizes that you aren't doing any palm reading/magic/etc. You just reply to her inquiry about it with a joke saying "I was kidding. I just wanted to hold your hand." Be sure to smile. While you have her hand before she realizes its a joke, do some smooth rubbing and interlocking of the fingers. (Stuff that bf's and gf's do) N-Close is cake from there on. If she rejects the move then I would assume a freeze out is in order.

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I like that, going to try that as well.

I've had pretty good success with shaking hands after introduction for an extended period of time and either a) continue shaking and making it fun, then holding her hand and mentioning that I'm the romantic type or b) while shaking hands mention that you can beat her at a staring contest which leads to kino (hands) while also adding amazing eye contact and a little bit of sexual tension

Ive heard of that move but I've never done it. I feel like it immediately makes things awkward and formal.

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i haven't experience awkwardness. I don't hold the hand for long at all, very briefly then I release quickly