The words of wisdom were spoken by kasabi. neo87 made the best point. And I think you made the right decision in leaving her. You should hold your standards high and expect your girlfriend to NOT flirt with boys. Those are my expectations, and of course I don't flirt with other girls when I'm in a relationship.

The sticking point is that although the text by no means would indicate she'd cheat on you, you'd be wondering the whole time she's out one late night "is she cheating on me?" and that's not a healthy mind set.

As a relationship post-mortem, you should have told her "and now you can let the guy eat you out and make some buff green-eyed babies. Bye bye."

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

Haven't read all the posts here but if I were you I'd next her.

Good that you ended the relationship anyway.

This kind of GF is not good for keeps.

Go ahead, find yourself a new one.

Pain? - Well it's not really pain man...it's wounded ego.

Let go. Next