"Confidence"

This is very underlooked in the pickup community in regards to attracting women and developing your innergame. Women are attracted to confident guys for some many reasons:

Confidence= leading and dominance - Alpha male traits

confidence= Experience with other women

confidence= your happy within your self- Innergame

confidence= you don't care about what others think about you

confidence= exciting guy


I found through meeting tons of girls and dating attractive women that confidence was the no1 thing that really made the difference as opposed to just using game and all the other pua techniques.

CONFIDENCE: is something that every man can change and improve on over time and putting in the practice.

You can actually practice being confident: which of course at first it will feel a little unnatural but with experience and positive reference points you start to develop more confidence then this eventually shows up in pretty much all areas of your life not just with communicating with women.

I think the first step to building up your confidence with women is to practice talking in groups and being sociable...then taking steps to improve your look, fashion, and definiteley take up improv classes to improve your "vibe" and your spontaneity within your conversation.

You should also study successful people and learn from them and how they carry themselves...there are countless ways to improve your confidence with women but firstly it requires being honest with your self and taking action in order to get the results your after.

lots of people seem to think that confidence comes with age but this is far from the truth as some people are super confident at a young age and visa versa. If you ask women to list what they find attractive in a guy? confidence will be very high up on the list for obvious reasons.

The more you practice something the more confident you become as it becomes easier to do..

I think any method can work as long as your confident in what your saying and believe in what your doing.

It's how women are inherently built, based on evolution.

This is why it's often said in common society, and not just in PUA circles.

yep but it's still highly underlooked by men- or perhaps i could say not practiced enough...

Wrong... Confidence is one of the biggest topics talked about in the Pick up community and it is done because it does not exist, is not something that can be seen, done, practice, and you can blame every failure and achievement to it... So you can sell more products to gullible guys promising something that does not exist.
First only mental disabled people or humans younger than 2 years old can be confident in everything, you have to specify confidence in what.
If you have no idea about finance and you have confidence to lead people in their financial stuff, you and your friends will end up broke. If you do not know a region and have no idea about orientation and you use your confidence to lead you and your friends you'll end up lost.

Otherwise if you have done something 1000s of times you become confident at doing it... If you are an expert in finance you'll be confident to give the right advises to your friends, if you are an expert in the region then you can give a tour to your friends without any problem.

Confidence = experience with women ? what do you mean with that like a Gynecologist? women do like that? On the other hand if you have what they want you'll be confident to give them that....

confidence= you don't care about what others think about you... don't care about what others think about you = to being a sociopath... are healthy women attracted to that? Instead when you reach a certain level of competence in something you know that nobody will judge in the wrong way when you do that, and that gives you confident... Still if you are not a sociopath, you won't be confident about doing this same thing in another way or wrong on purpose.

confidence = exiting guy? Excitement = Adrenaline secretion. The paralyzing feeling we get when we want to approach a girl is exactly the same feeling of "I feel butterflies in my stomach when he talks to me"... Approach anxiety feels the same as Excitement... A good way to describe confidence physiologically is to do things without adrenaline rush.... Just the completely opposite as excitement...

Confidence in the things you know comes naturally, confidence in the things you do not know makes you an idiot. Confidence is not the goal, is not an action, is not something you can practice, is just the consequence that comes after good experiences...

If you want to practice something, practice courage...