Alright, so here's the skinny. There is a girl in my Psychology class who is about a HB8. Anyway, after class I would always see here smoking outside near one of the buildings by herself. I've been seeing here constantly at the same spot smoking by herself for the past few weeks. I for one am not a smoker, but my approach involves me coming to her with a cigarette and asking for her to light it telling her that I don't have a lighter with me. After she does that, I'll talk to her for a bit and then throw away the cigarette and tell her that I'm not a smoker but just needed an excuse to talk to her.

Would that work? Is that a good approach?

I mean, should I just let her light the cigarette and then throw it on the ground after she does it? And tell her straight up, "I actually don't smoke and just wanted to use this as an excuse to talk to you".

Or take a few small drags and talk a little and then stomp the cigarette down and tell her that I don't smoke and just want to talk to her?

She would probably be upset saying that you wasted a cig and should of gave it to her. If you go with this approach, i wouldn't take the drags - u'll probably just end up coughing and look stupid and ruin the convo flow.

You said she was in your class? How about sitting next to her in class and opening then rather than when she's smoking. You can always make fun of her asking why she's alone all the time (this will give you some negs to work with). This way as well, she knows you are in her class and you guys can now talk before / after and progress from there.

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I would say no, it almost definitely wouldn't work.

There is a fun way to open a conversation like that, that relies on getting an excuse and then admitting you don't actually care about that excuse, you just wanted to meet her. That works because it is half confident but fully charming. It's cool.

This however, is way too try hard. To do this, you can't have just happened to have a packet of cigs on you. No non-smokers have a packets of cigs on them. So you must have seen her there before. And then gone to buy some cigs. And then gone up and said a dishonest line. And then gone with it for a minute or two until you dropped that you didn't actually smoke....

That amount of thought and investment in her before you have even said hi is way creepy. Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay creepy.

I'll give you an approach that will work (...if you do it right...). Go up and say "Hi, you know you really shouldn't smoke. That shit will kill you one day. Anyway, I say you and thought you looked lovely, and had to come and say hi. You look like a XYZ student"

Easy

And what about that "(....if you do it right...)"? What does that mean?

It means if you do it right (good body language/eye contact/fashion/etc.) then it will go well. And if you don't have that down, then it probably won't. But that's the truth of both indirect and direct game. Do either wrong, and it goes badly. Do either right, and you pull hot girls. End of story.

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