I haven't known about the game long but i get a lot more new phone numbers recently , when asked this question i have to think for too long about what to say and that therefore makes whatever i say seem fake to the girl, it comes out when i have shown im a fun valuable guy and she is heavily qualifying herself to me, she will ask (usually at the end of a text message).

what do you want from me?

or

what are you looking for?

or

are you looking for a relationship or...?

or some shit test to that effect, how does a pua play it? we need to work out a solid answer to reply straight back with to put her back an her comfort zone and not effect the conversational flow x

The answer is: whatever it is she needs to hear.

That being said, pay attention to what you know about her. Has she said she's looking for a relationship? Does she seem cautious about dating?

Also, most of the time the girl is just trying to get you to admit that you just want sex. But the reality is that all guys want sex, which makes those types of questions pointless to try and answer with honesty.

So your answer should be based off of what she wants to hear, but don't make it too obvious or it'll seem like you are just trying to impress her. If she's younger, tell her that you're just trying to see what's out there right now and if you find the right person, great. And if the girl is older and looking to settle down, then tell her that you really want to find that special person whom you can settle down with because you are tired of the dating scene.

In almost all circumstances your answer should convey the idea that you are potentially serious about a monogamous relationship. That's essentially what most girls want to hear. Will this guy be faithful to me?

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How the hell do you get that far in the text game? That's miles ahead of where I get lol

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I agree with puaninja for the most part.

Depending on what YOU want to get out of your interaction with her, I think its totally fine to hint at a more casual relationship (if that's what you want). Sometimes, girls will ask questions like this because they are too scared to honestly convey how they feel. And let's be honest, women, just like men, are down for no-strings-attached-fucking too. Society just won't let them be as open as us guys want them to be.

So in summary, if you are trying to be with this girl, tell them what they want to hear like puaninja said. If you dont want to get caught up in relationship, then just be honest and say "I'm not trying to settle down right now and I'm kind of just considering my options while also focusing on school (or sports, work etc.). You know what I mean?"

The "You know what I mean?" at the end is always a good way to kind of force the other person to be cool with what you're saying. You would be surprised how many girls take this in stride. Sometimes its a great situation for them too.

Hope this helps man.

Because the moment you say "I want such and such", she's invariably going to reply "Oh, well that's the OPPOSITE of what I'm looking for..."

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If she asks, "What are you looking for???" Just say, "Someone I can just have fun and be myself with."

I don't think any girl can disagree with that, but, If someone thinks that's a dumb thing to say prove me wrong...

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