What can I say man ? I'm just trying to give you some outside of the box insight here. If she wanted to cheat on you she would have. Attraction is normal. You probably got your own long list of chick you'd be banging or trying to if you were single.

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Would it be wrong of me to tell her she needs to contact him and tell him he is not to contact her for any reason? and to delete his number and remove him from facebook? she has gotten upset at me for girls on facbook flirting with me and i have removed them when she has asked. so is there a problem with this?

my 2 cents -ive been in almost the exact same situation...you can dump her ass now or do it when you catch her cheating with him when it will hurt more

Yes that'd be wrong. Don't give her the impression you are scared he will steal her from you. Just decide if you wanna continue seeing her...

I think this is funny since being pua's we all do the same thing. we are out with a girl and we are flirting with another girl on the text. I have even slept with a girl and as soon as i was done and she is laying next to me talking to me me i am texting another girl.
This being in mind. She was flirting. yes. we all do it. this this a jelious factor on your part. If any time a girl flirts with anouther guy your going to dump her.
set a reasonable goal. That is excessive unless your doing slave and bondage. which is a differant topic all together.
She even said if she was single. she is telling him she has a boy friend. depending where you want to take this as a serious thing or not depends on your reaction. Seems to me though you don't trust her.
May be something you want to work out first.

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i explained to her that this should never happen again, and that if it did it was the end of our relationship. she said she talked to guy and he agreed to not talk to her that way. and wants to come over and apologize to me... wtf? haha anyways i did mention i think it was inappropriate that she stayed in contact with him. and she said something about me not trusting her... i told her when this type of shit happens how am i supposed to trust her? anyways she said something about me being insecure and that really ticked me off.

She was sexual with a guy over text and tried to hide it. And now she promised to not have those conversations like that again. What LMAO. "I'm sorry I did something wrong, got caught so I'm going to stop having those convos with the guy...you can trust me baby.(Hides phone now)"
This girl is going to continue or is going to cheat. If you catch someone doing something wrong, you leave them. Especially when they've shown they can be deceptive. All that's gonna happen is she's gonna hide it better. Why would she stop? Have her morals changed? No.
This is one of those "little" acts=MAJOR sign things. I can guarantee she is going to continue. You found out about ONE guy. There are probably more. What about her facebook? What about the guys she meets in person. Do you think it was ONE guy and you happened to catch it? She's shown that she can flirt sexually with guys and hide it. No remorse. Ask yourself, why would she not just hide it better? Really
Putting your foot down gets you no respect. Women know this because at the end of the day you stayed with her. She knows you're willing to put yourself last. When you see signs now she's just going to say you don't trust her.

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This and don't be afraid to leave her man my guess is your young and there are plenty of girls who you wouldn't have to worry about talking sexual with another guy

come to find out dude was an ex fling....

I ended the relationship. this isnt good at all i feel hurt and i'm going to try my best to not let it effect me. it simply wasnt working and i should have nexted her a while ago... the pain sucks i cant really stop thinking about it and im going to go out and game other women.

Thank you Neo87 for being someone on this forum that has some common-sense.

And it's about time that you got your head back on your shoulders betablaster. That was painful to read. Never detach your balls again.

Good for you man I know it sucks now but trust me you'll be happy you did this now than later

Good man,it does suck but at least you keep your dignity and self respect...

That is how i talk to my female friends, but that is how i talk in general, is not big deal, does not mean the dude is necessarily serious. But if it makes you uncomfortable talk to her about it, and tell her you don't want her talking to the dude. With that being said the dude could just have been joking... I text my female friends, things like you owe me a lot of bjs for all the help i gave you. Does not mean i am gonna get or expect a bj, that is just how i talk, get it. But talk to her and bring it up.

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^ that is not good, she is hiding something...

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