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| Eros_ | PostPosted: Sun Feb 03, 2013 4:34 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Apr 08, 2011 12:57 am Posts: 25 | | Hey
Need some advice please guys..
Gf 21 i'm 25, we basically see each other everyday and have been official for 2 months now. Both of us like to drink but the problem is when she goes out with her friends she doesn't stop drinking and pretty much passes out every time. She is such a liability that a few days ago she got so drunk after we had an argument she fell over in the street and smashed her head, then was sleeping in the street until the pub owner carried her home. Then last night she did the same again but ended up in an ambulance after hitting her head again. I don't even know all the details as she was reluctant for her sister to explain what happened in front of me to us.
I love her but her being such a liability is pissing me off.
Ive told her already I don't like it. She is a lovely girl and does anything for me, HB 8 and outgoing. But i am higher value than her and don't want to be arrogant in my decision to end it if I could be overly harsh in dealing with this as she is a great catch, and I could see a future if she just wasn't such rape bait.
Any suggestions appreciated
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| R.C | PostPosted: Sun Feb 03, 2013 5:49 pm | |
| Offline | | Ask a mod for a custom title |  | Joined: Thu Oct 13, 2011 1:53 pm Posts: 5428 Location: Romania | | "Are you insane ? You're getting so drunk that you're bashing you head and getting carried around with ambulances. The fuck is wrong with you ? how is that not a red flag ? what more do you need to stop overdoing this ? And yeah I'm being fucking harsh on you with this.That's because I know you're better than that and you're smart enough to understand it."Throw in this little ego-boosting compliment.
If you really wanna get it in her head tell her that you're not even talking to her as a boyfriend. This goes beyond what you want / like. She's putting herself in stupid dangerous pointless situations and you're genuinely concerned for her.
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| Rough Operator | PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2013 11:45 am | |
Joined: Mon Oct 03, 2011 12:32 am Posts: 960 Location: England | | That's a serious problem she has, beyond just game.
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