Normally I would know the answer to this but this girl seemed quite interested...

Met her ~4 weeks ago and had a good time. Had a couple of good text conversations about vacationing over the next few days.

I went on a business trip immediately after and she was out on vacation. I was doing slave hours and had no time to keep in touch; plus a time difference...

I contacted her early last week a couple of times (2 days apart - just 1 text each) and haven't heard from her. I am back in town and wanted to ask her out for early next week since I ma be gone again.

So, do girls lose interest that fast?

PS: She knew I was out on business.

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Yea dude, you're giving yourself up to easy. Keep it more mysterious. She doesn't need to know you are away on business if you just met her. And you don't need to be getting all lovey dovey on her just because you've been gone and want someone to hang with when you get back.

Keep it light, give this one a rest and move on. You should have at minimum 25 girls in your phone at all times that you can mass text at any given point in time. Just say "hey what's up", and see how the market replies. Never text before 9pm also. And NEVER make plans.

You make plans and it's all over, you immediately become the fall back plan. Text after 9 for the same night, and bang em at your place brother.

It depends on whether or not you had sex with her and how many times. It sounds like you've had sex with her but you don't make that clear.

An entire week without contact is problem at any stage but if it's prior to the lay it's detrimental.

If you've already had sex with her twice (as in on two separate occasions) then a week of radio silence won't kill you, but it's still not a good idea.

I too travel often, including internationally. When you live that kind of lifestyle you must FORCE yourself, using schedules and reminders, to maintain somewhat regular contact with any new women in your life. Consider it mandatory. Because it is.

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I haven't slept with her yet. Let's see how things go with this one.

Dam, that's too bad. Will keep that in mind the next time.
It's hard to keep things going with just texts especially if you haven't spent too much time together in person...I am gone for weeks at a time sometimes.

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If you're gone for literally weeks at a time, you just need to be more organized with your dating/sarging schedule. For example if you know you'll be leaving in a week for four weeks, hold off on the sarging until you get back.

I know it's tough, but that's really the only way to do it if you're stuck with such a schedule.

You should also pursue sarging women while you're gone...but I assume you're already doing that.

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Haha yea, I get more action when I am on the road! But I am looking for something a little more long term...I've never been in a long term relationship. This one was GF material for sure! FUCK!

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While you were on your business trip this girl went out to the mall and four guys hit on her. Then she went to fill her gas tank, and two more guys hit on her. Then while you were still on your trip, three of her orbiters she's been keeping in her back pocket texted her. Then she went out to the club with her girlfriends and six more guys hit on her. One of them she actually thought was kind of cute. Not really much too him, but he was tall and had big muscles and tats and she's always a sucker for "bad boy" types. So now she is talking to him and eventhough he's kind of lame, she still wants to hook up with him.

That's why she isn't concerned with you anymore. Girls have fifty other guys to preoccupy their time, and chances are she is more attracted to at least one of them than she is to you. Trust me, she's not just going to pine away, waiting by the phone for you to call her sometime. You are in a competition with a vast number of other guys you don't even know.

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Dam! You sure do know how to paint a picture don't you! . Thanks for the reply.

I spoke to her friend who's a very close friend of mine and she said I should just be straight with her as she tends to over analyze things. She is apparently pretty dam busy at work, law firm...

By friend didn't even know that I was talking to her...so she is kinda outta the loop which is why I inquired.

I am thinking about calling her this week and being honest. Normally I don't do this, but I genuinely do like this chick. There is a lot of potential, hot girls are a dime a dozen but hot girls with brains are 1 in a million!

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The girl did get back to me. Apparently was busy with work and applying for grad school. Still not in town to set up a first date though. It's getting hard to keep her engaged without even having been on a date ... any help would be greatly appreciated.

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