| Hey guys, My name is Cirala, I'm 19, I'm relatively new to the game and the community but with the literature i've encountered so far i have been implementing it in the field with good results, I'm from the UK and feel like I still have alot to learn, I was introduced to the community the obvious way after reading "The Game" I wouldn't say i'm looking for "The One" I just want to have alot of fun and have the knowledge of what i should do when i encounter the girl of my dreams (cheesy I know). before reading up and learning things I had a certain amount of natural game but only after a drastic weight loss (anybody has any fitness questions i will be happy to answer free of charge ofcourse) so i guess that boosted my confidence, I want to know as much as possible and i'm not afraid of anything as long as i'm educated.
Right off the bat i need some help, there is a girl who i met when i was a really big guy (26 stone) and went straight into the friend zone because i didn't believe i was worthy of her, i then went off to Musical theatre school for a year and stayed in London, I recently moved back home for a couple of months and met up with her, I straight away showed her i wasn't the same and we Kissed, we then texted for a bit and I went round hers to watch a film (nothing happened which confused me, I did instigate but she just said "wait till the end of the film i have to think about it" I didn't hold her to it, we chatted then i left, I asked her straight up what was going on and that I thought we we're on the verge of a beautiful "friends with benefits" situation (I like to be honest, it works for me) she had recently ended one and that she wasn't too sure so i went to see her perform that night with her band (she's a singer, sexy i know !) and we went out and started kissing in the club, I was convinced i was taking her home until a previous "friends with benefits" kicked off about it, I didn't want to get involved and she told me not to so i planned to leave, i saw she stormed off so i told him to apologise, he did and then they argued more, she said it'd be better of i went home so i did, I woke up to a tex saying "sorry about last night" i replied and we chatted and then stopped, she was starting a new job the next day so i text her saying have a good 1st day and she didn't reply and hasn't text me since, this was about 4 days ago, I don't really think I should be the one to text her to start a conversation in fear of coming across too needy, any advice or am I being far to analytical ?
Thanks
Cirala
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