I love older women, better conversationalists. This is a humorous one that worked for me:

Madame: How old are you?
Moi: Your favourite number is.
Madame: *Says favourite number*
Moi: Then I'm *Whatever number she said*

Smile of course and carry on.

You can lead her onto something about numbers:

That number you chose means something about you.

or

My favourite number is 91 which means I am a sensual love maker or extremely focused (whatever you want her to know about you) - add a cheeky smile in there!

Smiley

I take a more direct approach. If a girl asks me how old I am and it's random or out of the blue, I just look at them like they just asked me for my bank account number and say:

"why? does age matter to you?"

It puts them a little on the defensive, but it also brings the point home that age doesnt matter. If they laugh and press the issue I make them guess and immediately after they know I look them in the eye again with a zero control giving smile and say

"is that a problem?"

Their answer is always "no", and it really makes them think about any assumptions they have made about age.

I date a very broad range from college girls up to late 40s and my age has never been an issue with that approach.

There was however both one older girl and one younger girl who seemed hung up on it. In both cases I handled it by asking them what sparked their notion that age was an issue. After they gave me their convoluted explanation I just laughed it off with a cocky/funny comment to the effect of "don't blame me for your bad experiences" or similiar. Simultaneaouly put them at ease and in their place. It also made them assume I was different because I was holding them accountable for their assumptions.

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My favourite reverse is:

"You are too old for me."
"And you are too young for me, but you still get to talk to me."

"Im too old to date you."
"Who said anything about dating?"

"Im too old for you."
"You most certainly are."

My ex once tested me, she is 3 years older. She found me on a dating site and saw my dating profile. She said Seems Im too old for you, Dryden! I said yes you are sweety don't let it get to you.

I use to get this a lot since i went for cougars for a while. After a point i just quit caring about age and this went away.
Yet my standard come back for this is "old enough, why does age matter to you?" It seems to put them at ease about hanging out with a younger guy. In addition they know that if i am going to say something like that age doesn't matter to me. Puts them in retreat and they don't talk about it any more.
Just what I use. hope it helps.

You guys are all dealing with this problem in the same way... I too have always went for older girls, and yes some of the lines discussed here do work. The problem is that in the end you're all too young to understand what your actually doing wrong.
Your all basically just trying to get past the age thing and downplay the fact that your younger than the girl, but to her this isnt just a small thing, this is a deep high level frame issue with her. A girl who is 22 goes out to the club looking for very different things than a girl who is 30. At 22 they're happy to have a one-night-stand if they think the guy in attractive, and have a small hope that he might stay around for a while. At 30, the girl is seriously looking for a husband, and if your out there making stupid jokes about age, and basically just making fun of her inner desires to find someone serious, then you probably wont get very far.
Instead of trying to brush past the issue with a joke, take it head on. Be serious with her, and honest with yourself. Demonstrate that your mature for your age (if you actually are, chivalry is big here) and either let her know that you understand that shes not looking to just hook up, OR tell her that you wont waste months of her time in a meaningless chase and that your only looking to give her one amazing night. And I can only hope that you arent just lying to her, because the pain that it will causes her isnt worth it and we all know not to lie to get what we want.
So in the end, either be serious, and you will be successful in getting the older girls, or if your just looking to hook up, then go for the younger girls who are more likely to be looking for the same thing.

You guys crack me up.. As a 45 year old who fucks 20 somethings.. I can assure you that these woman are indeed dating and fucking older guys and getting it really well from (most) of us. The reason - more often than not, older men don't have the false 'chest thumping' bravado, we're mature and don't play the typical games and we provide no drama to freak them out. But the number 1 reason is CONFIDENCE. Really. If a girl shit tests you. you've already lost, she smells fear. The ONLY decent response is 'how old do you want me to be'. If you can deliver that line with confidence and cockiness, you may pull something out with her, if not, she'll walk away from you.

Honestly, I don't want to be an old fuck and piss you guys off, so I'll quit being smug... I get the same question. fact is that not EVERY young girl likes an older man (or a younger guy). They self-qualify... out the door that is. Stick to IOI and quit forcing an interaction.. Focus on the right approach - not EVERY approach. The faster a girl eliminates herself from the evening, the closer you are to getting to the right one.

Work smarter, not harder

I had this problem, I will let you know how I usually overcome it in the first few paragraphs. Read on if you want to know why I do it!

I don't want to hear this age is a number rubbish (no offence lads).

This is just acknowledging that there is an age difference and possibly confirms that it might not be the best idea for the two of you to hook up.

I look young for my age.

Usually I will no doubt trying to get fired in a girl and the inevitable question of my age will pop up, I usually ask her to guess first. Regardless of what she says I will put a semi serious face on and say I am (insert extreme age e.g. 10 or 50 years old), then crack a smile so she knows I'm being funny then usually ask her what age she is...


...This will then follow up by her playing along and likewise saying an absurdly extreme age aswell. Depending on the woman she may continue to play along with the game or drop the subject. Either way you do not want to linger on the subject and possibly you can move the conversation onto dirtier topics

What you are trying to do is disqualify the age gap and show that you are comfortable with who you are. If she is asking your age that could just be a natural barrier she has that is drilled into woman of this society about hooking up with older/younger men, if you disqualify it properly then you can start putting the moves on her.

NOTE: After the age question, move fast. If you are able to disqualify properly escalate the interaction with kino etc as the longer you linger on boring topics about her work and such then she will no doubt not listen and you will either lose interest or her "natural barrier" will go back up.


Some woman I know have this idea of a three year rule, the man has to be older...the list goes on.

You do not have to be perfect for a woman to like you, woman will have a criteria that they will have for their "type" of guy. You do not have to tick all the boxes, just most of them.

Remember that if she is asking your age then she is already considering/imagining subconsciously you two hooking up! Keep that in the back of your mind gents.

Good luck and godspeed, let me know how you get on in the future and happy hunting/

Donnar

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Man yall are giving some really good points. lately ive been meet older women , im 23 and thier at leasst 29 and up. I was out for my birthday and meet this 32 HB9. We talked and i built a nice repport befor i left to go to a diffrent venue i number closed but all she said is im to old for you we can only go out as friends blah blah blah. she ended up giving me her number , i knew she liked me but the whole age thing just werided her out.i ended up leaving and she came to the next bar i was at lol . txted the next day and with a fast responce i was amazied of how this ended and how fast she replied.

when i was 19 i was text gaming a 26 girl that a friend of mine did not score (i stole her number from him, and texted her with the same context as him (chatroom) yada yada i got back from Spain yada yada...)

so.. because i knew the age would be a problem, and at my 19 i looked and had game of a 26, i lied.
i was 25 for her.
after a 1st date, that i got her to come tomy house to give me a cup of tea because i was sick (how lame right ahah) and with this fuckingly crazy gray/blue eye contact lenses... some smooth talk and with escalating to back/shoulder rug/massage i fucking F closer with her saying "wow...Fuck ME!"

so... yeah i told her after 2/3 months of amazing mind blowing hot steam sex that i was actually 19.

wanna try to guess what happened?

yeap, it did not work out because she had issues with my age... introducing me to friends and family so we went appart.

so for your sake, if you think it should be better for you to lie, do it. i only regret the things i don't do.
it was an amazing experience, one of the best shags of my life.

Nevertheless, if you wanna challenge her when you think she has issues, then shit test her with the same thing like... "oh me too.. you are TOO OLD for me... it's almost like you are 40 and i'm 20".

when younger, i almost and for most of the times hit on Milfs as they were really cactchy, cut to the chase, and know how to spot a Latin Lover at eyesight.
Besides that, they crave to fuck and you really do not have to worry about LMR too

best of luck 4 you and the guys here

bros b4 hoes

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I hate the response "Guess." on either side of the conversation and quick to chastise her for asking me to do so. F you, be real. This isn't a game show. I'm 25 and I'll tell you upfront because I don't need affirmations of youth/maturity nor do I approve of people seeing age as make or break.

Unfortunately I get stuck here too. I need good witty, natural statements to either break that notion or work it. I'm certainly not going to size myself up and tell her I've slept with women twice her age. I go for older and have some better success there. My personality radiates im older than my age. When I hear that I respond saying that I've had a handful of good life experiences.

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Just thought of this...

Her: How old are you?
Me: 69
Her: *She can say anything at this point* LOL/Good one... real original/Haha, honestly, how old are you?
Me: Sorry, what was your original question? I was thinking about something else...

If she persists on the age bit... say your real age. If she says she's too old for you then respond with:
1) Age only matters on your ID
2) A MAN who's 30 but behaves like he's 20, is 20. A man who's 20 but behaves like he's 30, is 30. (make sure to use the word MAN)
3) Does the age of a person matter to you? Mature people don't view it that way

Haha. I'm gonna use this and I have the perfect field for it. I also like #3 as a response there's a hit of negging in there. #2 brings a good point that supports my earlier self-statement.

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Hey guys I'm 18, in final part of school and the few times I've gone out clubbing I've had this issue where my looks attract older women so they start to turn, open up and dance towards me but then they see me as 'too young' before properly giving me a chance.

. I'm mature in the way I act and conduct myself but the problem is I look quite young and I can tell that this is an issue for HBs in their early to mid 20s...just the other day a HB grabbed my hand and started dancing but her HB mate looked at me and dragged her away.

How can I get around or negate this 'too youthful' image and please don't say go for teens your age it younger!.

Advice warmly received

TAM

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