Yeah, the profile is really up front and straight forward about what I'm looking for. I think that's why it works relatively well compared to the true chode POF profiles. I have a pic of me in my skivvies, face blocked out. I'm not shredded all to hell like most of the guys who have shirtless photos, but I do work out and have a somewhat muscular build. So I think having a body that is at least somewhat attractive, combined with the no-bullshit-total-honesty-straight-to-the-point profile is what makes it work. That, and I hardly use any game at all for that profile.

Though I should mention that the author of the thread said he's been pulling plenty of lays with no picture, or a picture of him in his skivvies, but says that he is not that good-looking at all.

In the meantime, gonna text this girl tomorrow and see what's up. Worst case scenario I have another project on my hands, which is equally if not more confusing.

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At first when I read you description an alarm went off that said "this girl has to be cheating on someone with him" it would explain all her weird flip/flop behavior. But then as I read through the rest of the thread it hit me. What you have on your hands is a bonafied closest slut in denial. Lets do a little analysis here:

Most likely insecure about some aspect of her self and needs physical contact with men to satiate it. Also has a guilt complex about that need as most women do. In her case it seems like she is also internally conflicted about her own desires for sex. I bet that she has not mentioned anything about you to any of her friends. (which could be win/win ultimately).

I've played with this type of girl before. Right down to her directly booty calling me then actually crying a little after sex. It was freakin weird at the time. But after a couple I saw the pattern and started asking questions and put the pieces together.

Since you claim to just want sex in this situation, then I would say don't question it. Take what she gives you when she gives it to you and know that she will have moments of internal conflict and guilt. I’d say that comes with the territory of empty physical connections. I recommend however, to slow down a little, the sex will still happen. Besides if you show her a tiny bit of being a caring human being most of her reluctance will melt away.

What you should never do with someone like this is to superficially start to randomly care out of a misguided sense of not being a complete douche – she will see right through it and it will be game over. She knew what she was doing when she messaged you, but just about all girls don't realize they can't actually handle that situation for very long without flipping a switch in to relationship mode. So ride it till the wheels fall of and move on quickly so you don't crush this poor girl.

Also, just something to consider. I've had just as much success maintaining completely casual sexual relationships being a fun loving friendly dude as I have being a callused dick head. The difference is that the sex was twice as enjoyable and we remained casual friends after the hookups stopped. Don't treat her like a meat hole, go hang out, have fun, be a human and friend with her for a half hour-hour or so and then make the sex light hearted and fun. You will both enjoy it more and it will be a lot more likely to last a while.

I went through the knock knock, bang bang phase and honestly it gets old fast. After I learned to truly appreciate people and they will often reward you for it (if you know what I mean).

Just some food for thought.

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