How do you care what people say? i have a hard time being interested in other people to be honest, especially other men. this sucks because i notice that my game is good,but i lack social proof. yea anti social...so i just moved to a new town where i don't know any one. A fresh start of sorts. soo i'm looking for tips because i am really bad a make friends.

omg dude, we have the same issues.
I got a new gf once i get to this new school but i realized i wasnt really socializing and lack of social proof.
I'm also having a hard time to be interested in other people and i only got a few friends that can really talk to. I'm afriad that might be a DLV, and kinda stuck, dunno what to do next to meet more friends. And i think poeple are not interested in me 2..

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Looking for PUA San Jose or SF.

Money.Power.Respect

You need to appeal to other people's interests, even if you are just pretending.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

lol, idk whats wrong. i sometimes think of myself highly and i wanted to get other ppl to talk to me or stuff and i just cant feel interested in other people and they didnt feel interested in me either. Is it only me or my problems? They didnt have any passion in me or the feeling to carry on the convo. I tried to carry the convo even i'm sorta low energy,but its not workin out.

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Looking for PUA San Jose or SF.

Money.Power.Respect

yea i try to pretend, but that gets tiring to be honest. i feel like every person my age are clones of each other. originality is dead.

Don't pretend.
Find what your heart wants. (Why do you do PUA? Is it to advance in life? Then make advancement a part of your life.)
What can you GIVE others? What is your purpose? (Yes, you can have multiple purposes as long as you really want them.) Could you give love, happiness everywhere you go? Could you help others with their problems? Could you be a person that increases good in the world (caring attitude, love, peace, unity, respect, protection etc.)?

What is that your heart really wants to give to the world? To the people?
This is an essential part of anyones life.

And how can you reach what your heart desires? Yeah, you might want sex, but is that really it? Are you really a shallow piece of shit that just wants sex and nothing else out of girls, people and life? Think not. Or just stop being that way - it WILL kill you sooner or later.


...actually everything will kill you eventually, whatever that.

See their hobby and interest.. They can help you connect with them.