So my girl used to give me head whenever I asked. It was great! I could fuck her mouth, cum in her throat, she'd swallow, the works. But a few months ago she got pregnant and wouldn't give me head because she felt it would make her throw up. So, we get an abortion. She is sick afterwards and the number of blowjobs I got decreased significantly. She loved coming up with excuses or just saying "no". A couple times she said, "yes, after I put on my make up" or "let me finish getting ready for work" only to say she didnt have time when it came down to it. Naturally, I told her, "I'm breaking up with you. We just aren't compatible."

She freaked out, cried, and eventually agreed to be a better girlfriend if I was sweeter to her. I agreed. Then the problem is I can't come from a bj because she needs me to fuck her, or when I do come, it can't be in her mouth. Then the number of bj's decreased again within a week.

She knows I need frequent blowjobs and be able to fuck her mouth and come in her throat in order to be happy in the relationship. She however needs me to be this super sweet romance novel bf who always comforts her, gives her massages, talks to her about bullshit, not stand up for myself when she gets pissed about the dumbest things, etc. the thing is: I actually TRY to live up to this bullshit while I may get 1 or 2 bj's a week.

I even stopped asking because she makes such a huge deal about it saying I'm always shoving my dick in her face and how she feels pressured (because I ask her to do it). I'll even go down on her for 20-30 minutes and she'll tell me "no" when I ask. She says she doesn't need me to go down on her so it's my own fault if she doesn't reciprocate.

I know she likes when I go down and when I use my fingers, but she will just take sex because that's what makes her cum. I feel like she's lazy. I'm tired of her pretending to have a hurt jaw or sore throat just to get out of her duties.

She says I'm sexually abusive with blow jobs because I think we should give each other whatever we want when we want it. I'm down, but she's being a selfish little girl. Who knew a stripper could be so lame?

Help me out here.

Ysrayl

Nice troll.

How am I trolling? This is very serious.

Whenever my girl says "no", I just want to put my clothes back on and play videogames or get a beer and read. I don't want to fuck her if she doesn't blow me. This is no joke.

Ysrayl

Dude, she had an abortion.
I don't know if the lack of bjs are something else but it could be it reminds her of the baby you guys killed. She went through one of the toughest things a woman can go through, so either leave her or just give up bjs. An abortion changes EVERYTHING.

If she doesn't want to do it you either got to improve your game so she wants to do it or find someone who will

Im all for men being in control of a relationship because i believe that's the only way it can work but i'd hate the thought of my girl sucking my dick because she's scared it dump her if she didn't, if she's not enjoying it i don't want her to do it

Id be careful if i was you, if you ain't gonna treat her right then somebody else will

Some of you people are a pathetic waste of existence...

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I treat her right, cousin. The bitch is fucking LAZY. I put in mad work and she expects me to provide while she doesn't do shit. I'll be god damned lmao. I wish she had some hot friends I could throat-smash. Guess I'm out sarging again.. She better not cry if she ends up getting played

Ysrayl

No more mr. Nice guy

Maybe a little more Mr. Nice Guy is in order, since he was clearly never there in the first place.

I'd say this right here is why she says no to you. Ya sure you may "treat" her right but coming from our point of view that you gave us, I'd say nobody would suck your dick with that attitude. Learn respect, Goes a long way.

My closest female friend today said to me "I would never suck dick I didn't respect"

Wise words.