hi guys,
i've got a problem that needs consulting. i was with a girl and we where having fun together but her ex wouldn't let as be. he kept texting her and visiting her. She had strong feeling for him so when he told her to get back together she didn't knew what to do. eventually we broke up and she return to her ex. ever since we kept in touch and we talk almost every day. her ex lives far away and they have an long distance relationship. meanwhile, i start dating other girls but when she ask me i tell her that nothing serious happend yet. i know she want me, the thing is what to do to get her back asap. thnaks!!!

Withdraw from her life and let her miss you. Hanging in there and still talking to her is giving her the best of both worlds, love and attention from her ex and attention from you. Take it away.

WHY DO YOU EVEN WANT HER BACK???

SHE LEFT YOU FOR HER FUCKEN EX!!!

Ask yourself, is that the type of girl you wanna dedicate your time to because if that's the case then your standards are pretty damn low.

I have a very strict date-once policy which means that the minute I break up with someone I am never getting back together with them no matter how strong the feelings are or how much she wants me back. Life is too short to be rolling with the same woman more than once if you ask me. You have about 3.4 billion women to choose from on earth and yet you wanna give one of them more than one chance to be enveloped in your glory?

Fuck her! She's proved that she's not worth it.

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I know! That's what everyone told me! But they don't know the game as well as you do! That's why I'm asking you! cuz I believe you know exactly what to do when you set your eyes on the prize!

You don't get her back. Her ex is miles in front of you. Their connection is already there, your connection with her has to be formed.

If someone is not over their ex and the ex shows interest you're not ever really gonna win that battle.

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I respect your confidence but it's not about you. It's about her.

Even if you're the best you can be , the end result is still linked to her.It also depends on what kind of relationship they had and how/why it ended.

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Why are you so sure you're not a rebound?
Why are you so sure she didn't use you to make her ex jealous, in order to get him back?

Don't want to get you down, but these 2 questions would pop up in my head.

^ THIS.

Just dealt with a similar situation. She's now back with her ex. Don't waste your time on her. In my case, her ex actually texted me from her phone pretending to be her, last night. If she's willing to be with an insecure f-up like him, I want nothing to do with her. Dodged a bullet IMO. You can't compete with the history that she and her ex have.

Hey, it's ok, people rotate in and out of relationships with ex's all the time, guys and girls. If you want her back, then it's your turn to have her back.

All you do is game her like a girl with a boyfriend, and don't mention the boyfriend. Tell her that you'd like to see her again "just as friends" and catch up on old times. Then when you go out start escalating and tell her that you still feel a connection.

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