Let's say this girl is 22 years old .
That means ppl have been telling her how "pretty" she is since she was probably 14-15 ,that is 7 years of reinsurers that she is what our society calls attractive . The same way that fat kid in your class has been called "fat ass " everyday for 4years in At some point he starts to believe it . Now what happens to that fat kid most of time ? Well aside from some rare cases . The kid falls deeper into that roll of the "Fat Kid"
The same thing happens to the "pretty girl " she falls depper into that roll and starts to believe it more-n- more .She starts to date "high value guys" in high school and college .that don't give a fuck who she is and how pretty she is , and every loser dude says"why is she with him hes an asshole.". BINGO!!!! News Flash Guys NO ONE LIKES A NICE GUY! This does not mean treat the girl like shit forever ,all I'm saying is kindness is a gift and should be treated as such . Lets say a typical "Nice Guy" says to Sally " Sally you look absolutely breathtaking today "
Sally might enjoy the compliment but she knows he's just a nice guy and probably has said that to 5 other girls . Alright same senecio but this time it's coming for the " Ass Hole"
" Sally those yoga pants make your ass look amazing " first off if the nice guy said that Sally might be creeped out " eww why is he looking at my ass " but this guy has established "man to woman frame" with her and not the "friend to friend frame"aka the dreaded " Friend Zone " So Sally will take what he said more to heart and continue to seek validation from him , knowing that he is preselected and NEEDS nothing from her . Most guys can fix this problem just by throwing in less compliment from the jump and making the compliment you do give me personal . Instead of saying "you look pretty today . " say " I really like that you have your own style about you it show a lot of confidence " . See how one is generic and the other is a bit more personal and real .


Well I hope this helped u guys out I heading out untill next time .

Take Care .

Correction - ugly girls act bitchy too. Think they ought to be diefied just because they have this thing between their legs.

I learned I am too much of an asshole most of the time. That is a bad thing. I think its good to start as an asshole but dont finish as an unemotional idiot like I do most of the time. After you see she is into you show that you can emotionaly relate to her.
Just figured this out few day ago.

I like to put on a "reflective state." That is, if I approach a HB and she is acting like a bitch, neg and be an asshole. I usually don't open with that because some hot girls have low self-esteem and this is a good way to instantly get rejected. However, I don't walk up and open with a compliment either. I usually start with a situational observation, this allows you to remain neutral and you can usually gauge how receptive the HB is. For example, "Hey, wow these are some pretty cool lights in here." Typical responses- "Whatever, they are just some lights." Then I would respond with a slight neg, "Yeah they don't show off your dress to well anyways. What brings you to a place with such dim lighting anyways?" However, if she responds with "Yes, they're super pretty." I would respond with something more positive.

Good point - the more unwillingness to engage in reasonable discourse the girl displays, the more you have to crack down on her. The more willingness to converse she demonstrates, the more of a friendly and light tone one should adopt.

they act that way to SOME people because they are constantly being hit on and need to brush people off- if they humored everyone they would have no time for themselves. if you know them, they are just normal people.

You can drop the political correctness; there's no women around her to postray your gender equality beliefs to catch their interest. Must be a reflex from daily life carried over to here.

They act bitchy because you are just the next guy who wants to hit on them. You've got to bring something to the table to get their attention.

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