Hey darth Vader I'm new to this online dating thing and I tried one of you opener last and she just stop talking to me maybe I'm boring. me: hey I would remove that picture on your profile . Her: hmmm why? Me: i was just kidding, I just wanted to start a conversation with you. Me again : hey I'm name her: haha, oh you had me worried for a second. Ha Name . I'm name hey wats up Me: just hanging out At my house . Lol why would you be worried your adorable.

Hey guys, ive as of recently started doing facebook pickup and saw this and figured id give it a whirl on facebook. Sent same message to 10 girls near me in australia. Will let you guys know how it goes and if i get any replys. At the moment still learning so trying anything until i get something that works.

To all you Sargers out there. Best wishes in 2013 may you all Hope Love and Happiness.

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Hey darth! Just want to thank you for this opener; I would estimate a 90% return. I have engaged with some fun flirty conv's, however, I do get quite a few girl's who just say OK after the second reply. I usually reply the 2nd time with "I had you going! No worries kiddo you're adorable." Anything I should do dif. or I could add? Thanks!

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"You know the guy who can pick up any girl? I'm him. On crack" Nick Naylor

There's really nothing I can do to help out your game after the opener. You're like a salesman, for every potential customers only a few will buy. This is by far the most successful sales pitch I've created, but not everyone is willing to buy for whatever reason. It's just the facts of life.

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this has NEVER worked for me...

you'll be ok, you'll find your nitch

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I don't think canned openers work on-line. I've literally been on dates where a girl has whipped out her phone to share with me and laugh about some lame pick-up line a guy messaged her with.

I find that the easy thing is to digest part of their profile. Keep a message short mentioning something in her profile. A quick fact about yourself that provides a connection with something in her profile followed up on how you are interesting in her because she's cute/adventurous/blah blah.

Thanks Vader this opener is rock solid. I only sent it out 3x and got 2 replies.

For me canned openers have gotten a MUCH higher response than taking the time to craft something funny and personal for each woman. This reminded me of a crazy short story I made up years ago (I am getting back in the game after a long break) A friend in another city and I chain mailed it and had almost triple the response rate of our normal messages.

For the guys that say it isn't working, like people have said, maybe this opener doesn't work with your profile? I also wondered if there is a certain type of area (big sophisticated city?) or type of woman (low self esteem?) that it may not work as good with.

I've noticed that there has been a mixture in responses from females from the UK, but I've only e-mailed females who are marked as "replies very selectively" on okcupid. Must be a bit of a culture thing as ironically so far my best result has been from a girl from California lol. But i guess I'll have to see how it goes and if anything change it a little for the audience.

hey everyone Im new here. just thought i would tell my experience with the Darth Vader opener and other strats i used...i was on pof for a while having little luck. i had some good convo's with girls but never really got anywhere even after getting 3 numbers...And barely any of my messages ever got replys...I decided to take a break and deleted my account....then I came acrossed this site and DV's tactics and some other tactics ive seen online...
So then I made an account on Datehookup(dot)com and gave it a whirl...

First off i would only consider myself as average looking...but i had 3 pics that looked good and 2 had me smiling...

My profile was set up like this: which some of you may have seen this online b4..
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I’m an ***hole. I won’t open doors for you, in fact be careful as I will likely trip you as you go through the door for laughs and giggles. I expect you to cook for me and clean up my mess after I eat. And by the way, I’m a really messy eater. Food everywhere, on the floor, in my lap, but these are the least of your worries.

I leave my socks on the floor in the bedroom, and yes they stink. I will not do laundry, and insist that you do it. Not just insist, you must LOVE to do my laundry and look forward to it. Look forward to it like you look forward to water in the desert. Look forward to it like you look forward to seeing your family after years of separation. I think you get the picture.

Also I don’t do romance, I expect action on the first date, big time action, and I won’t sleep over (yes this will be at your place because I don’t want you to know where I live).

Interests: car jacking, cusing out old people, eating worms, fishing, graphic arts, music, rich women smoking crack, sports, stealing crack from bums)
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i started messaging random girls that were online in my area with the "hey you should delete that pic on your profile" approach....I would say about 90% of these girls couldn't help but to respond.
had decent convo's with 5 of them and some of them kinda went dead. and some i am still having a conversation with....But that was until i approached a BBW...and shes not bad looking lol...
here is how she played out.....
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ME- hey I would remove that picture on your profile if were you!
Jan. 22 7:30 PM

HER- Oh your charming how do you ever pick up women? Nothing wrong with my picture or me!!!! Don't comment if you don't like the way I look
Jan. 22 8:05 PM

ME- aW LOL can't take a joke? How else am I gonna the attention of a pretty girl like you?
Hi Im (MY NAME)
Jan. 22 8:14 PM

HER- That wasn't funny (MY NAME) lol! Not sure if I should take you seriously,thanks for the compliment Handsome and sarcastic my kind of man.Im (HER NAME)
Jan. 22 8:17 PM

HER- Your profile really made me laugh and think how sexy he sounds:)
Jan. 22 8:20 PM

ME- Oh very nice name And nice to meet you...
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So (HER NAME) do you have good job?
Jan. 22 8:23 PM

ME- He whos he?
Jan. 22 8:23 PM

HER- Im sorry I meant you meaning he. Well it pays the bills I work at two restaurants and go to school for medical billing.
Jan. 22 8:26 PM

ME- Hmmm Sounds ok, I need someone to take care of me...I like to sit around all day and play video games.
Jan. 22 8:27 PM

HER- I need someone to take care of me sorry I already have two kids
Jan. 22 8:36 PM

ME- Lol girl Im just playing with you...
Jan. 22 8:43 PM

HER- Well stop playing with me its turning me on duh
Jan. 22 8:50 PM

ME- oh is it really?
Jan. 22 8:51 PM

HER- I can't help it im attracted to sarcasm
Jan. 22 9:09 PM

HER- If you had to rate me from 1 to 10 what would you give me?
Jan. 22 9:26 PM

ME- What do you mean rate you? On looks? Usually I don't rate a lady on just looks.
Jan. 22 10:20 PM

(SHE DIDN'T REPLY BECAUSE I THINK SHE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY. SO I STARTED THIS OLD TRICK.
BUT BY THEN I ALREADY HAD HER FULLL ATTENTION...)

ME- Can I tell you a fact about women?
Jan. 23 2:05 AM

HER- Please im waiting
Jan. 23 2:11 AM

HER- You don't have to rate me
Jan. 23 2:13 AM

ME- They say 93% of women masturbate in the shower and 7% sing. Do you know what song they sing?
Jan. 23 2:14 AM

HER- Nothing wrong with masturbating definitely don't have the time to have sex!
Jan. 23 2:16 AM

HER- I'd like to make the time though,your to much MY NAME!
Jan. 23 2:17 AM

ME- Lol u didn't even let me get to the punch line
Jan. 23 2:19 AM

HER- Im sorry go ahead forget what I said.I am so turned on can't sleep now thanks handsome
Jan. 23 2:23 AM

HER- So what am I suppose to do (MY NAME)?
Jan. 23 2:26 AM

ME- :)U where supposed to say "no or what song" then I'd say. Well u must be in the 93% because u don't know the answer
Jan. 23 2:30 AM

HER- HaHa what song? Your so bad and like how naughty you are.Could be fun together:)

ME- Hmmm. Idk... I don't think your a naughty enough for me.
Jan. 23 2:33 AM

HER- Well I can't sleep and I have to be by 5
Jan. 23 2:35 AM

ME- Aw:( maybe u you should receive some stress....
Jan. 23 2:37 AM

HER- How do you know,if you don't find out? I am very naughty
Jan. 23 2:38 AM

HER- Im not talking about masturbating I can do it that anytime
Jan. 23 2:41 AM

ME- Oh I see...are u trying to say u want me to help u relieve some stress?
Jan. 23 2:44 AM

HER- Hmm.. Smart and sexy my kind of a man!
Jan. 23 2:47 AM

ME- Mmm...now your making me blush =P
Jan. 23 2:49 AM

HER- And tall I like that also
Jan. 23 2:50 AM

HER- I just want make some heat with you:)
Jan. 23 2:52 AM

ME- maybe u should give me you number...and maybe one night we can work something out...=)
Jan. 23 2:55 AM

HER- Well maybe I will 555 555-5555..look forward to hearing from you! don't mind the area code I used to live in Florida
Jan. 23 2:57 AM

ME- alrighty (HER NAME)...time for me to go to bed...have some sweet dreams naughty sexy girl =)
Jan. 23 3:01 AM

HER- You can text me anytime you like,help fall asleep talk to you just as well
Jan. 23 3:01 AM

HER- Sweet dreams (MY NAME) I'll try baby!
Jan. 23 3:02 AM

ME- Aw...i should really be getting to bed...so maybe tomorrow I'll text u....that is unless.
Jan. 23 3:05 AM

HER- Unless what can't stop thinking about me..well think of this I have 42dds
Jan. 23 3:06 AM

ME- Lol yeah that's what I'm thinking about...but it's hard to image something I can't see
Jan. 23 3:08 AM

HER- Well if you text me now I can send you a picture
Jan. 23 3:09 AM

ME- Mmm. What kinda picture? Can I see them?
Jan. 23 3:10 AM

HER- Yes text me and I will show you my big tits
Jan. 23 3:11 AM

ME- ok but I have to sleep soon
Jan. 23 3:13 AM

(WELL THEN I TEXTED HER AND WE TALKED NASTY FOR A WHILE...SHE ENDED UP SHOWING ME HER PUPPIES AND SOME OTHER NAUGHTY PICS OF HER COOCH AND STUFF.
SHE STARTED TO MASTERBATE AND TOLD ME HOW SHE WANTED ME INSIDE HER AND HOW SHED SUCK ME OFF. SO YEAH SHES A BBW I HAVE ON FILE FOR A RAINY DAY NOW:))

Lol thanks DV Im gonna keep playing around with this....

Not a Problem

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Guys remember Treat others as you would want to be treated.

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Best openers are one that provokes responses.

Ask her about something in her photo or her profile. if her photo is with her dressed smartly, ask her what the occasion was. if she is in a bar/club, tease her by saying that you hope she didn't drink too much. if she is on a beach, ask her if she got a tan and not a burn.

Openers mean shit in the long-run but are key in getting attention and creating a positive vibe from the outset. That sounds contradictory, but to break it down, if you go on dates with her, she may not remember the opener nor give a shit. but to get her immediate attention, the opener needs to be good. Think about it, if you see a girl on an FB group or is a friend of a friend you don't know well, then you need something to pique her interest since she is a stranger. Light teasing and cocky/funny comments will generally get a good response. As she doesn't know you, the opener must acknowledge that by getting her to make an effort to respond and respond positively.

never say though "you're really beautiful". if it's a 7 and above, she most likely gets a lot of people commenting her on her looks, and it also sounds very beta-maleish. if you want to comment on her looks, then again tease. Say something like "well, you have looks, but i'm interested to know you're other positive qualities?" or "they say good-looking women have it going on in all life areas. i'm intrigued to know if that's true for you too? lol."

Thank you so much for this, Darth Vader.
fyi: I am German so I was forced to change some parts, but it works so great! I sent like 15 msgs and got a freakin' 100% response rate.
And the best thing just happened this morning. After the "lol I hope you can take a joke, ..."-part her answer was like "this is so different from all mails i usually get, but in a good way. my number is XXXXXXXXX"