The technique I used this past weekend to get this girl I've been gaming for the past couple of weeks to come home with me was really quite simple. All it took was continuous rapport building through the evening, story telling and just maintaining her attention so that when you stop talking she wants to fill the gap and keep the interaction moving along.
We went to a cool little pub/coctail bar across town from my flat. (Interestingly her choice of venue, maybe helped with the comfort building). We proceeded to have a great night talking and flirting and drinking. Pretty sure she was actually trying to get me drunk at one point. I got pleasantly tipsy and the night came to a close. We decide to make a move.
She says she needs to get a taxi home, I agree, "yeah that's cool". But we just keep walking acros town back towards my flat, which perfectly is the same direction as where she needs to go. We get to the first Taxi rank, and I basically just ignore it and keep on walking, while continuing the conversation. She doesn't even give it a second glance either. Now its still a mile and a half to my flat in the freezing cold, but I'm just maintaining the comfort she obviously has with me and keeping the conversation flowing.
Now the crazy thing is, her dad is a taxi driver, so she can get cheap rates easily and even crazier he drives past and stops to say hello to her and asks if she needs a lift anywhere. She said "No." So at this point I know it's obviously game on. She jokes with me that she will get a lot of questions tomorrow after being spotted with a new man. But we carry on walking up to the point where its time to part ways and its better for he to go a different direction.
At this she asks me, "where are we going?" I simply replied, "I'm walking home". She seems indecisive, so I make a quick quip about something we'd talked about while flirting earlier. "Do you wanna see if you can beat me at Mario Kart 64?" (I kid you not!) And she lapped it up and got all excited, haha.
Got home. LMR: "I'm not sleeping with you!" But a quick kiss close routine followed by swift removal of bra and she's ready to go. I even used a cheeky, "who said anything about sleeping" in reply. By the way, we still haven't played Mario Kart either.
Great night and seeing her again this Friday
