I can relate to this situation at the moment (Going to post in a new thread my full detailed story when I get 20 posts). I started dating a girl in September; my swag was on point! (Alpha characteristics/ Always Busy and not Needy - She kept longing for more). She was persistent and always saying she missed me and txted me constantly throughout the day. Sex was amazing! Whenever/However I wanted it. I must say I had the vibe of thinking she was too clingy so it kept me subconsciously from wanting to move forward with her. One night I went out with some buddies for Happy Hour and then late beers and didn't respond to her... She txted me bitching up a storm. I txted her at 1:00am "Next =)" as if i was cutting her for good (her thinking I could easily just leave and never come back has worked wonders for the first few months). Fast Forward 10 days and she gives me one more txt saying how much it sucked she got close to me and it was just over... I responded that it was for the best and we werent a good match (I probably should have not responded at all)? Well a couple days later I snap and start chasing her... I've been a Betta and it's been a down-hill cycle ever sense..

Girls are crazy man.. I think your girl is a lot like mine. She runs off drama and as mentioned before do you really want someone like this in your life that you will have to keep plotting strategy to keep interested? It's hard because I have feelings for this girl and always did. I think keeping more options available is the best choice you can do to yourself because it will naturally give you that "I don't give a F" attitude. I had all my options with my girl and I became Betta because of it.

So at the beginning of August we got back together, but have just recently broken up again. I don't care nearly as much as I did back in the spring. I am ready to move on. Not sure if it was worth being back with her, but at least I got another chance.

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Just read through this thread. You're better off without her for sure.

It's always the fucked up girls, the ones that are bad for us, that we find hardest to let go. At least I do.

Recently been sleeping with my first ever girlfriend from when I was a teenager, she's such a nice, caring and kind person and she never plays games or would toy with anyone and I think she wants to be with me, but you know what? I find her boring, I just needed to fulfill my libido during the dry spell I am having after a break up. That sucks, I know this girl would be good for me, but I don't want it. I want that fucking toxic headcase who dumped me for her ex.

They always say "Spark an emotional response in a woman" and thats true, but maybe it works both ways a little? They toy with our emotions and we want them more. Logic goes out of the window.

I know exactly what you mean. I dated some girls over the summer and I got bored with them quickly. They were to easy and were always available. I have learned a lot from this situation though. The knowledge I gained will definitely help me with future relationships. The first time we broke up I was fucking psychotic. This last time we broke up and I didn't even fight it. I have been keeping my distance and just letting it be. I have realized that I can't force her to be with me. If I give her space, it will give her the chance to figure things out in her head. If she wants to be with me she will come back and I am prepared for that scenario. I am not just going to take her back right away. She needs to know she can't just walk in and out of my life whenever it's convenient for her. I will tell her I think it's too late and am seeing someone else. Maybe by playing her like that a little bit, she will think twice about just breaking up with someone in her future relationships. And hopefully if we do get back together, she just won't up and leave like she has.

When we are together it is such a great feeling, but she turns from hot to cold instantly. She definitely has psycho tendencies and for whatever reason it draws me more to her. I feel so much gratification when I am with her that it makes so much more difficult to be apart.

I am definitely a lot stronger mentally now especially after all the shit I went through with her back in the spring. I also have more friends and people to lean on and take my mind off her when things are going bad. Who knows what is going to happen, but I am not going to stress over it anymore. Whatever happens, happens.

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Tryna "Wife" Them Bad Girls