does anyone have any experience with dealing with this? shes only been on it around 3 weeks id say, but shes randomly disappearing for hours to days at a time, phone goes off like crazy, im pretty sure shes banging people for it. shes way too smart and beautiful to go down this road how am i supposed to help her??

RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN.

My mom told me once about a man she dated in her mid 20's that this happened to. She told me what she did was had an intervention and tried to get him help. When that didn't work, she gave him an ultimatum, coke or her. He chose coke and she peaced.

This isn't really the right place for this question though, I'm sure Google has plenty of more helpful advice, and you should also contact a professional.

If this is the same girl you made a thread about before then FUCKING LEAVE HER!!!!!!

What he said

Banging people for drugs?

Um, that's a drug whore, not a girlfriend. Unless you're addicted to crack GTFO.

Addiction isn't caused by narcotic substances. It's caused by weakness.

When your in some sort of shit ,the more you get in it , the more you just wanna run and escape it. Obviously you never will escape it and every time it catches up with you it only gets worse.

People find their escape in drugs / alcohol / etc.

I don't mean to shatter your dreams and I dont wanna be disrespectful OP but
smart people don't feed their pathetic weakness. The fight it , stomp it and move on.

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Id say an intervention is the best way.

My ex is about to start doing this but with downers. Shes super depressed and she JUST tried to kill herself 2 days ago. She says all she wants to do is take pills so shes numb of her pain. We are going to try everything in our power to do so, but more then likely the sad truth is they will go to extreme lengths to get what they want once they crave it.

Sad to see people go down like this and its hard to not blame yourself.

There is nothing you can do... dont take it personally. Its not about you. The best advice here is RUN... not because youre a pussy but because this can only drag you down.. You cant love her enough, or engage in a certain manner that will miraculously save her. She will stop if and when she has had enough. DOnt let her ruin your life too... Good luck brother!

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"

1. Get some standards, really dude, a crack head? If she likes to have a couple drinks or smoke a joint now and then, that's cool, but CRACK? C'MON man. A girlfriend is like a wife without the ring, it's a representation of not only her, but yourself.
2. Open another tab
3. Go on youtube
4. Search "Project Pat - Don't Save Her"
5. Click the video
6. LISTEN TO THE LYRICS CAREFULLY! You can't "save" or "help" a person, they have to want to get better on their own ESPECIALLY A CRACKHEAD. Or else you're just gonna be miserable
7. And last, but certainly the most important RUN
8. RUN FASTER!!!!

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