When you make jokes you show the girl that you are playful and entertaining. You don't need to be Dane Cook in order to pull this off. The key is to come off very confident and assured of yourself. Not cocky though. The line is thin but body language can help keep the two apart.Let me give you an example. A while back I was at the gym and I saw this gorgeous girl working out. I went to the front desk and asked for a pen and a piece of paper. I wrote down my number and a smiley face on this sheet of paper then folded it in half. I approached the girl and she saw me walking toward her. As I came closer I had a medium smile on my face(which I have perfected by practicing in the mirror) in which she naturally returned a smile back. When I reached her I looked at her and said with a playful grin" I know you've been checking me out." I then handed her the folded piece of paper with my number. "I figured i'd save you some trouble". Then I left. The girl did not say one word. Just had this smile on her face that showed confusion and interest. When she unfolded the paper and saw my number with the adorable smiley face she couldn't help but release a quick and loud burst of laughter that she had to muffle with her hands to prevent attracting attention to herself. I got a text that night. Her name was Maddie. That could have gone horrible if my body language presented me to be a jerk. Feel free to use that approach if you want. It's quick and funny.

Let's go more into depth of what happened here.

Why was the smile important? And why do I practice smiling in the mirror?

The smile is important because I wanted her to notice that I was approaching with positive intentions. If i had a nervous expression on my face she would be thinking to herself "sheeeiiit...he's gonna hit on me and this is gonna be awkward". Its been proven that emotions travel from person to person so look happy and she will recipricate. I used to practice my smile in the mirror because I wanted to make sure it wasn't so big to project a creepy vibe and too small to give off a sense of insecurity. But I mainly did that because i'm a weirdo.

How do you know what to say at times like that?

I strongly believe that it is okay to put on a cocky state of mind even if you don't believe in it considering you have the body language to make this appear as confidence. For example, I knew that girl wasn't really checking me out. I'm not very strong, i'm not the most attractive person in there and I was dressed in some old workout clothes. BUT that adds some of the humor to it. In this specific situation I just reversed the situation. I did everything I wished she would do to me. How nice would it have been if she just came up to me and gave me her number for no apparent reason? Amazing. But you've got to be prepared for a discouraging response sometimes. When you get these responses have your guns ready and don't lose your cool. In this scenario she responded with a text saying "You're funny (:" but I was fully prepared for her to text me with something like "Hey, I wasn't checking you out" in which I would have responded with "It got you to text me didn't it?"


What type of body language should I use when approaching a girl?



This varies from person to person. If you are more of this small and adorable looking guy it's okay to approach a girl with a little bit of a shy appearance. I have friends who can pull it off and girls love them. They can approach with his head slightly tilted down, one arm going across his torso gripping onto the opposite elbow. Putting on this small and reserved smile why simply being charming and sweet talking. Most guys, however, can't do this. You don't want to approach a girl talking about how beautiful they are. They hear that all the time so the goal is to be different and a little bit of a challenge. So for most of us, we must keep are head up, back straight and a show a smile that portrays our complete comfort in ourselves. When you speak with a woman be sure to maintain this appearance. With enough practice it will become natural and you will see that you are just talking to another human being. That is the best way to be comfortable with girls in my opinion, no matter how beautiful they are. Remember these girls pick there noses, fart, poop and worry about how others think of them just like EVERYBODY else. You should have a mindset that you are not the only one who needs to impress them but they need to impress you as well.

Master your confidence and body language and you will see huge results.

1. good for you
2. it goes LONG WAY.... if you wanna post something like this I(we) want more details, more fundamentals, more deep. its look like just ego post to me.

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Excuse my awful English !!!

Yea it does appear that way and I apologize to come off that way. I kind of was stroking my ego haha but that wasn't my true intentions. I've never posted on a forum before so I just wanted to throw in some of my ideas and experiences before I start writing pages of information while trying to claim that I am some sort of guru. My intentions were to spark conversation and analysis but for future reference I will definitely add more content and I appreciate the reply.