| Lots of drama here, not sure if I even want to get involved in this but I'd like to get a few opinions.
One of my good friends dated a girl and they broke up two years ago. I'm not sure if either of them are completely over each other.
I am also friends with this girl, and was before my friend and her started dating. We've been hanging out a lot recently, as friends. She's good to keep around, because she has other hot friends (I have banged one of them so far).
We've started to get more intimate in our conversations about sex. She's bragged about how she gives "the best blowjobs," and gone into intimate enough detail to make me pitch a tent. Tonight she pointed out a white stain on her shirt, and I jokingly asked if it was cum, and she said "I wish."
She's sexually frustrated, and she has a MEGA Anti-slut defense. She makes up excuses not to sleep with guys and then gets frustrated when they leave. While we were watching a TV show, the male character threw the female character in the closet and started making out with her and she said, "I wish someone would do that to me."
I've flat out told this girl that she either wants to be raped or taken advantage of, and she just sort of looked at me and nodded in agreement.
The signs are pretty obvious: she just wants to be dominated. I've hit on her once or twice and gotten rejected, but it was a half-assed attempt on my part. It was more like a "hey do you want to make out but I have reservations about it so obviously you are going to say no" type body language that I was conveying.
I have two problems:
- I have hangups about how this will affect my friendship with my friend. If I value his friendship, and there is a chance that this could screw things up between us, should I just keep this girl off-limits? I'd rather have my friend than this girl.
- How do I escalate and dominate her?
I would never rape a girl or do anything that she didn't want to do, and the thought of doing so makes me very uneasy. I'm uncomfortable about the prospect of reading her body language incorrectly, and then getting to this awkward point where I've taken it too far. How do I escalate and know when she's really saying "no", and when she's really saying "yes"? Or perhaps a better way to phrase this: "How do I get her to say 'continue' without actually saying the words 'fuck me'?"
And perhaps most importantly, these things she's saying to me are strong IOIs, right? I'm not crazy???
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