Well, looks like I gotta figure this one out on my own...
anyway, I called her 10 days after our first date. She seemed not to have my number stored on her phone (or pretend), was surprised to hear from me. She apologized for not calling me since then, to which I joked I wasn't waiting/expecting her call, she gasped delightedly (seriously, there was no reason for me to expect her call).
I opted instead to hang out at this hip event next Sunday than concert with friends.
She might be interested but said she might be on a trip out of the country so I said I'll call her next week to check with her again because then I'll arrange to go with other female friends (lie!).
I don't want to come across as needy when I call her next week, so how can I dhv, and if she is going on this trip how can I set up a date when she returns?
Also, I suspect she might be visiting a very close close male friend, not sure he is her bf or just a few steps away from being a bf but need to find out that from her next time we meet.