My girlfriend is going to spend the carnival with her friend in another country. Her friend is in slut mode since she discovery that her boyfriend had another relantioship.

It didnt bother me but this friend was on erasmus for one semester and met some guys... now my girlfriend is going to spend the carnival in the house of this guys.. at first she told me they would going to rent a place but now going to sleep there. to be honest im bit worried...

What do you guys think?

She's gonna fuck their brains out. I see an orgy...damnit I wanna be there.



Ok ,but seriously , thats something you should know. Do you trust her ? Do you think she's the type to be unfaithful ? Plus , think of it as this:

You got a friend who's a PUA. You're gonna go spend some vacation with him in some chicks' house. What would you do ?

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this is a tough one. i can't see anyone who would not feel at least somewhat uncomfortable with this. but how much do you trust her is the key here? maybe she'll take it upon herself to watch over her friend and make sure she doesn't do anything stupid? i also think you could mention something to her IF you bring it up the right way. not positive how, but maybe just let her know that you trust her and you're not worried about her doing anything wrong, but its still an uncomfortable situation for you. it might even be an uncomfortable situation for her, and she's just going for her friend.

To be honest I trust her... but for no women im gonna vouch for them. I guess is normal im being a bit jealous.

im 100% faithfull i have alot of oportunities, but im in relantioship and it all that matters, if i wanna be with another girl ill end up. and i know she also has... lots and lots of guys. But the all sleeping in some guy house lots of booze drinking it doesnt make me very confortable

i wouldn't feel comfortable either. have you asked her why they're staying with the guys? how would she feel if you were living with a house of girls for a week? but like i said, if you talk to her about it, you can NOT give her a lecture, or indicate you don't trust her. its ok to be uncomfortable, its not ok to not have trust.

Relationships are not difficult by nature, they are difficult because we cannot accept their natures. There are certain unchanging and sacred gross truths that people will forever refuse to acknowledge regardless of how brazenly their attempts to lock them down get tossed to the curb. There is no cure for these maladies, no escape from their clutches, and ignorance is anything but bliss when you’re within the grasp of their articulations.

1) You cannot stop her from cheating by being overprotective. What you can do is draw a line in the sand and tell both her and yourself that if she chooses to risk your relationship in that way, it’s over. But asking her “who are you going out with?” trying to keep her from hanging out with slutty friends, or butchering her with interrogative questions will never, ever prevent her from cheating. If a girl WANTS to cheat on you, she will find a way to cheat on you. You can try and maintain a healthy relationship, you can keep her interest level high, you can build a strong sense of trust, but you CANNOT impede on her freedom in a way that will proactively stop her from cheating.

2) She will always, always, always, always be shit testing you. There is no “if we just past this one issue.” There is no “This is the main conflict of our relationship.” Don’t ask yourself “why is she ruining a perfectly happy moment?” Don’t ask yourself “we’re doing perfectly well right now, why did she have to bring that up?” There is one issue, and then the next issue, and then the next one, ad infinitum. There is no end. When you’re 95 and in your death bed, you will be shit tested. And god forbid god is a woman, it will continue thereafter.

3) There’s always a risk she’ll cheat. Yes, if she sees you as the undisputed Alpha heavy weight champion, there’s little chance of real emotional cheating. But could she get drunk at a party, suffer from a split second of sexual attraction, and end up hooking up with a guy? Could her subconsciously driven crack-headed need for drama, that impulsive desire for that oh-so-wondrous chemical rush, make her do something she’ll regret later? Yes.



So what’s the answer? Nothing. There is no solution to these, there is only the hope of coming to peace with them. You’re in a relationship and your girlfriend suddenly brings up some shit that happened 3 ½ years ago? Don’t freak out. She says some completely illogical shit that makes less sense than a single penny? It’s ok. Embrace it. Let go.

It’s been 5 years in your relationship and you find yourself getting more over protective because you’re afraid she might throw everything away? Let go. It’s not going to help.

Life is a risk, love is a risk. There is no security. As long as you struggle for it, you will remain struggling for it. Entropy is the way of the universe. It is futile; the moment you STOP seeking utopia is the moment you arrive in it.

Let. Fucking. Go.

Basically you're pretty fucked in this situation. She's going to stay at a PUA's house with a slut friend. I think the best thing you could do would be to lower the slut's self-esteem so low she decides to take any dick in that house, thereby shielding your girl. Ultimately, she is probably going to get drunk and fuck some guy and feel bad about it.

This is one of the most blunt truths I've read in a while.

And it's true. Life is a risk and love is life's greatest risk.

Love basically means giving someone your red button.The power to 'destroy' you, but trusting they wont ever use it.
Ironic part is that with high risk comes high reward. But you never get your reward with love...because the risk never ends.

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Update.

So i was talking to her,and she tells me that she doesnt know where she staying since her friend is going to sleep with the guy she gonna hook up... and she tells me that since he lives alone on the house she is not going to be a third wheel meaning she is going to sleep in the house of a friend of the guy.

Gotta say its really incomfortable...