| Telling her 'You'd do anything for her' can genuinely make her happy. The key thing is to know when to do it and how to do it. It's just like popping the "I love you". There's a time and place when it'll bring you great satisfaction , there's also a time and place where miserable failure is what it will bring.
You never stop gaming , not forever. You do pause it though if you want a healthy relationship.This is why:
Women want a men for themselves. That how they're programmed to think. I want him and I want him for me alone. No other female can have him.However , if another female is to have you , she must first desire you and you must be willing to 'follow' her.
Now , you are like an animal. An animal which she wants to put in a cage ( to make you hers). If you are going to walk into that cage all on your own (you proved you're not willing to follow anyone else - thus proving neediness and desperation), she'll get no satisfaction out of it. She has you , but she didn't fight / work for you, therefore you hold no value.
On the other hand , if you make her job of caging you more challenging , you'll hold higher value to her. This doesn't mean you should never let her have you , because she WILL give up at some point. Just don't make it too easy for her.
Once you have this higher value to her , she'll take pride in you. You'll be her trophy.
If she ever starts taking you for granted THAT'S when you unpause the game. That's when you remind her that you're the trophy she won. Yes , you are hers , you are caged, BUT , caged as you may be , you hold the key. All it takes is to use it , unlock that cage and you're free again.
You are caged not because you are powerless , you are caged because you choose to be.For the moment , you are enjoying it.
I've been in a LTR for quite some time now and it's great. This is actually the first girl I really ever liked. But if I ever feel something is wrong , I unpause , start gaming her a while and before you know it we're all good again.
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