So here is the deal. My X is ABSOLOUTLEY pissed at me. I haven't acctually done anything, it's just easier for her to hate me... so she does. We had a long relationship and pretty much know eachother in and out. But now whenever i see her now she throws negs at me non stop from "Hello" untill "Goodbye". Usually i just brush them off and play it cool. But that doesn't seem to do anything. It's like she's someone else. Alien Ice Queen! I need help.

Is there a reason why you are still even talking to this girl? Do you have children with her?

What kind of relationship do you want with your ex? Do still wish to be friends? If this is true, then she is NOT acting like a friend. Don't call her. Do you want to start an intimate relationship back up with her? If you do, then she i can tell you that she is 100% not interested. Don't call her and move on. Get your game on and meet new women, you'll forget about her soon enough.

I personally don't really keep in contact with exes, I just don't really see any point in it. There are a couple exes whose friendship I actually value, but that's one out of ten girls. This girl doesn't seem to value YOUR friendship, so forget it.

It's no big deal, just tighten up your game and move on. This girl isn't worth it, and you're this super awesome guy that other women would love to meet. Stay in control of your emotions and DO NOT call her.

i'll pretty much second that

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Always the one looked at for advice, friendly convo and not always the guy who gets lucky... They all love me as they say....

in all sense im still friends with my ex's.. im not 100% sure how..
i guess ive always just been open to them
if shes treating you the way you described ask her..
"why are you treating me like this"
if she says a good reason then you know why
if its something u can recover from im sure u'll know what to do
if she says something stupid then.. just tell her to think about what she said.
and dont talk to her.. if she really put some thought into it then she'll realized that she was being stupid..

and if all else fails just say forget it.. shes not worth your time.

...Im alittle diffrent I have a very special relationship with my ex... a very close one...and it stays perfectly normal and pleasurable for both of us...

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There probably was something about your relationship that was screwed up, generally girls won't be so vindictive without some reason in their mind.

Asking her probably won't help, ignoring the shit she's throwing at you is a good start- treat her like a bad little sister and ignore her in conversation. Ideally move on as fast as possible dude.

oh fuk that dont see her any more when a girl insults or negs with the intention of hurting me ill insult even harder

but the right way to do it is show a cold indifference about her and when your ignoring her and your letting them bounce off you say "Are you still talking" or "do you live for this" this either shuts them up and makes them think about what they say or they'll hate you because you think your above themyou cand play the agreeing game ignore what they say and respond with one word awnsers

My take on it is she still attracted to you and wants you to be in the same misery as her or she hates you

my best tip stop seeing your ex before it becomes one-itis

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"RESPECT THE COCK AND TAME THE CUNT"

dude i always try to stay friends with exs, mainly because if i was good to them then they can be good to help make me out to some kinda "nice guy" to other women cause at the end of the day we all know women talk!! as for this girl you are on about i think she just still holds feelings for you. i finished with a girl about a year ago and got all kinds of shit off her and her friends for no reason i could think off. she recently got married and told me that the only reason she was like that was because she was in love with and it was just easier for her to hate me and convince herself that i had done something wrong instead of just getting on.