So i met this girl a weeks back and we went on a date to an ice cream shop and then watched a movie back at my place. We just cuddled on my bed and I did a little bit of kino escalation but I asked her if she wanted to stay the night, probs not a good idea just to ask and not go in for the k close, but she said she couldn't stay because she had to be up in the morning. She did stay for another movie and I drove her home afterwards.

I asked her out on another date to go mini golfing and she said yes, but on the day of our date, we just ended up chillin at her place with her roommates. All of her roommates went to bed and one said she could drive me home in the morn. We went to my dates room and watched a movie. Same as before, we cuddled and i did a bit of kino escalation. She said I didn't have to stay the night like her roommate suggested. so I took that as a cue to leave.

I was hanging out with her roommates yesterday because we are good friends and they were saying that I should keep goin for it. They all really like me and want me to be with her. They said she is just really shy. But I'm supposed to go over to their place tonight and hang out with them all again so I can see this girl.
I'm not sure what to do about tonight. I don't want to just end up watching another movie and not having anything happen so any advise you guys have would be greatly appreciated.

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Evan/Bear
Tucson
eloncay11@gmail.com
Yeah Buddy

First, this isn't a sticking point, it's one situation.

Second, it seems to me that you already know what to do, as you are saying stuff like "that probably wasn't a good idea."

Third, You need to be comfortable with yourself. I don't know how I happened upon your post, but I hope you read this: It sounds to me like you are not terribly comfortable being sexual around girls. You want to, but you aren't doing anything about it. One tip off is that you've been on the forum for 9 months, with 20 posts. If you ever have any questions or want to learn something new, of course just post it up! We're happy to help! But that's neither here nor there. A better tip off that you're not comfortable with yourself is that people are giving you chances to show your real sexual side (ie. "I trust/like you enough to be at your house late at night watching movies with just us here, oh and would you please stay the night at my place?"), and you act uncomfortably about it.

You already know all this, I think, so I won't beat a dead horse, but let me just tell you: You are a very sexual person person. There's nothing wrong with that. This girl clearly likes you. Get out there and force sexual situations. Start kissing her. NOW! As you read this!

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Jazzy Jeff: "My love for you is like a river,
Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"

Grow some balls, man up, and kiss her. Don't wait for the perfect opportunity to do it, because that will never happen.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn