Right so I was getting with this girl who I knew liked me a few months ago, people thought we were going out but we werent lol, then I made a huge mistake and over-invested in this girl, got given a LJBF from her, so I froze her out and didn't reply to her text (she kept texting me after i f*cked up of showing too much I interest which I take it is a good sign and said stuff like "I really wish I liked you omg I hate myself").

Anyway so yeah had frozen her out and forgotten about it, then the other day she texted me randomly like:

"haven't spoken in a while how are you? xx"

to which I took my time in replying to so I come across as cool, saying: "hey _____ yeah good ty u?"

her: "you never replied to my text ages ago (((((( you have a good new year?"

me: "oops yeah been super busy, why you miss me then blah blah"

Her: "haha it's cool, nah actually I thought you were ignoring me where did you go? Blah blah"

So now I'm wondering what I should do as I know I still have some feelings for her but she is not ready yet so I need to create a chase, what should I do?

Cheers

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continue the way you have been, whatever you do, do not become like u were b4. I would keep freezing her out and go out to an event.... try to get into a conversation bout u goin to the club or something and she can come if she wants to..

But if you want my real opinion i think your in the friend zone, no offence but personally i would move on to another girl.

And keep in mind that there are 3 billion females on this planet, so im pretty sure you will find someone else in which you will like much more than her

Thanks bro

Hmm yeah I'm not gonna concentrate on her now, gonna keep foot in the door but not really act as if she's The One so I thought I'd experiment and see if i can make her jealous (which may or may not get me put o the FZ)

so how can I do this ? is it like surrounding myself with other girls and hitting on her mates?

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To conquer oneself is a greater victory than to conquer thousands in a battle