I recently got a message on Facebook from an ex-fling apologizing for "hurting me" when we were going out five years ago. I want have fun with her. I want to sound cocky funny and not bitter about it. How should I respond to her apology?

i'm actually doing the same thing. We don't live close to one another, but our conversations went straight from catching up to being very flirty and even getting regular invites up to visit her, what she wants to do, what she'll cook for dinner, etc. Just go straight to a comfortable and playful conversation that you can bring up past situations you had to get all those fun times back on her mind. I have no doubt that the next trip up there with her will involve a lot of sex. All you need to do is keep a regular conversation going and if she's interested in hooking up again, she'll make it obvious very quickly. my advice is to just get the conversation going and keep it going, if she's down then it'll happen quickly.

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Tell her that it's fine, how sexy she is, it just doesn't matter, as long as she talks back to you! haha