My girlfriend of 4 months, in the past few days has been behaving suspiciously, and I had the impression a breakup was coming.

So I took the horse and I stirred it over.
This is the text convo I had with her last night, the night of the breakup:

Me: "May I ask you... Have you been thinking about breaking up with me? I had this gut feeling in the past few days"
Her: "Sorry, I was downstairs folding my 3 loads of laundry"
--- no answer for an hour ---
Me: "So? Can you please answer me? The waiting is killing me "
Her: "I'm sorry we can talk about it tomorrow"
Her: "This isn't a conversation to have over text or phone"
Me: "well, that's ok we both know where this is going. I don't need to get the "talk" anyway."
Me: "Let's get this over with and move on... Agreed?"
Her: "Well, if you don't want to talk about, ok"
Her: "I'm sorry it came up like this"
Me: "Talking is not going to solve anything anyway"
Me: "You're a wonderful girl and you'll find someone else that will make you happy. And i'm a great guy... I'll get by "
Her: "High quality "
Me: "We had a good run though ahah"
Her: "We did "
Me: "Goodnight "
Her: "Goodnight (=I"


Now, I didn't meant to do all that on purpose, it just came out. But reading it afterwards it came up to me a couple of considerations:
1) this might be the smoothest breakup ever for her (for sure it was for me, quite surprisingly!)... also done 100% by text... That's unusual too...
2) there was no "fight" - actually we did never fight in the 4 months relationship
3) She might be quite surprised from my reaction and how I handled the situation

Given the fact that I will meet her again for sure, in the long run might this turn into a fuckbuddy?
After all, our relationship was very fuckbuddy-alike rather than the classical "boyfriend-girlfriend" (more about sex and less about going out having fun together)

Considerations?

Go no contact for a while and then you can re-assess your options. I can guarantee that NC will have her coming back at some point in the future.

I just wanted to give you props for handling it like a fucking boss. Don't initiate further contact and keep future talks sexual and you'll be good as gold.

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"Real Niggaz do what they want, Bitch Niggaz do what they can do." -2pac

In my opinion 90% of the break-up in relationships happens for two reasons:

1) She scored someone better than you
2) She think she can score someone better than you

That's it, plain and simple.
Both the reasons, if you really think about it, are YOUR fault.
Because you're not the best person you can possibly be.

There is no reason to get angry about it!
Instead, get your ass out of that chair and start turn your life around, step by step

Good things will come to the people that work hard on themselves!