| Sorry for long post but need nuetral advice
2012 Spetmeber I moved away for school.
(i snoop through her text messages before i get serious with anyone)
I have a gf i talk to this girl, she tells me she has a fuck buddy (B) and some guy in love with her (C).
I break up with GF Octorer 2011, fuck 2 chicks in between then start fucking her early January 2012.
January
Because she has a holiday planned mid feb to mid March, we only see each other for sex and I try not to get serious with her. I tell her I dont want anything serious.
We text everyday a lot and im starting to like her but dont wanna pursue anything because she is going on holiday soon.
February
On the day she leaves I text her saying 'I'll miss you etc' but I dont get a reply.
Her old Fuck Buddy (B) texts her, not only does she reply , but she texts a few days later asking why he hasn't replied to her.
I text again in a week later, then she starts replying my messages. Maybe because it was obvious he is not gonna reply??
One day she tells me she just fucked someone. I respond in anger telling her WTF she is telling me, i knew she was gonna have fun but i didnt need to know.
Anyway that very same day I fucked some girl that liked me, and started fucking another chick.
I tell her I saw an ex at a diner party, she accuses me of trying to make her jealous. Then says since B is back and C is waiting for an answer and she met people on holiday therefore she wont have time for me when she comes back. I say fine whatever makes you happy, I wasnt that bothered cos I had other plates spinning.
March
Anyway we continue to text and met up a few days after she comes back.
But now its clear Im meeting other girls cos they keep on texting me whilst we are together.
Following week one evening B texts and she meets up with him.
She goes on a date with another guy (D)
April
We continue meeting once or twice a week
We go on our first 'date' in mid April. We went to a sporting event and on occasion she was texting B, I was receiving texts too from other girls but I didnt respond.
On the text she is asking when is B free, B doesnt reply, until the evening.
She reply the following morning telling him she was near his area but he doesnt respond.
During the entire month Im seeing her, my ex and 2 other girls. She obviously knows this too
May
We have an argument, she wants to break up because Im confusing her about her feelings for D.
We break up for a few days and I continue to see her.
She then initiates a text to B and they flirt a little.
June
She finally has sex with D and then tells me how shit he was.
I fuck her that night and thought why not, 'i tell her how I dont like plastic surgery..' because a ONS i had the previous night had fake boobs.
B texts to meet up and she tells him she is busy. She was genuinely busy that day don't know if she they would have met if she wasn't busy.
July
She intiates B again, they flirt.
That night he texts her wanting to meet up but I was there that night. I was pissed off why she is texting him.
Whilst I was in the shower the next morning she texts him flirty messages again.
I left for work and I dont know if they met or not afterwards.
Anyway few days later we met and Im pissed off, I dont tell her I read the messages and she tells me she will delete him.
She wants me to delete my current fuck buddies.
She doesnt delete him but change his name. I delete mine except for my ex.
We agree to be exclusive until she meets someone vice versa..
She meets some guy, they kiss but they didnt do anything.
August
Nothing much happned, we are meeting almost everyday. Whilst playing games on my phone some girl I fucked a month ago texts me if I want to come round. She gets mad but continue
September
We go away for a weekend, during one night B texts and she doesnt reply him.
She replies him Monday morning about 30 mins after dropping me off at the train station on my way to work. Basically she didnt have time to reply him and it was the first chance she could get.
In her she told him she went away with me, he asked if it was a dirty weekend. She down graded it saying it was more or less a farewell since Im going away.
Later that week I admit to reading her text and she says she will never talk to him again.
Near end Septmeber we agreed to be proper BF/GF.
October
All is well she travels 4 hours away to see me.
We have an argument, as to why she wants to remain friends with C (guy in love with her.)
She agrees to drop him and never contact him.
November
One of a guy friends tries it with her, he always tries it on her but since we werent a couple it didnt matter. She doesnt respond to his come ons, but she didnt discourage him either.
One of my ex would have said look I have a BF, and stopped talking to him.
She just didnt respond to him, she just changed subject and continued the conversation lol'd at his jokes.
December
All is smooth etc.
Now we are in 2013.
I know it sounds pathetic, but I can't get over the fact she was initiating B, especially back in February when she texted him twice on holiday. She seems to have only started to text me back after it was clear B wasnt going to reply. I feel like she liked B a lot, if he wanted a relationship then I would have been out.
Add to the fact she met up with him in March and has asked him on several times he should make time to see her.
She is a great girl, sex is on tap, she pretty much does what I say and they is no issues on that department.
Is it my problem I need to deal with, is there too much drama already, shall I just dump her and move on.
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