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PostPosted: Wed Jan 09, 2013 6:17 am 
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Confident person can impress anyone with his communication. If you have any query about how to be confident then please quote or reply on this post!


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 Post subject: Re: How To Be Confident
PostPosted: Wed Jan 09, 2013 2:25 pm 
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In my experience, actions impress much more than words. If you are trying to impress people by telling them about things you do, then it seems somewhat approval-seeking, and not the most confident trait. Relaxed attitude shows a lot of confidence. Food for thought..


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 Post subject: Re: How To Be Confident
PostPosted: Thu Jan 10, 2013 7:02 am 
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Confidence depends on situation. People can be confident in a club but not confident when repairing the car. It logically follows that to become confident, you must put in time in that situation. In the club, put in time approaching in the club. On the basketball court, put in time there. On first dates, put in time on many of those. Skills and confidence are all one core idea.


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 Post subject: Re: How To Be Confident
PostPosted: Thu Jan 10, 2013 6:52 pm 
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Situational confidence is only one type of confidence and not the best. You want core confidence which is being able to be confident in any situation or environment. If anyone knew an easy way to get it then you'd have the holy grail and be a rich man. The best I can say is always challenge and confront any weakness or fear or anxiety you have and throw yourself in at the deepend. It will hurt but the knowledge that you can deal with that situation gives you the knowledge you can deal with any other. Learn to only be confident in a certain place, at a certain time, with certain people and you will be fucked with all other areas of your life. Not that there's anything wrong with being a pimp in your favourite venue, just make sure your confidence is well rounded. People like Tyler Turden talk about this in depth. Try RSD's Blueprint if you want more in depth stuff


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 Post subject: Re: How To Be Confident
PostPosted: Mon Jan 14, 2013 12:21 am 
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Core, true, genuine confidence is basically being able to stay calm and collected when dealing with scary/ stressful situations. Fear exists in the subconscious mind and if you can eliminate the fear from the source, you can confidently approach any situation without fear holding you back. Certain meditations and hypnosis can help you do this.

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 Post subject: Re: How To Be Confident
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Confidence means to be able to be humble in front of others, and avoid being arrogant. Confidence also means to keep yourself calm in unknown or bad situation. It is influenced by your environment. Your confidence level will depend so much by how people treat you throughout your life. So, if you want to develop confidence, it is very important to avoid people who will treat you badly, which will lower down your confidence level. Once you got rid of toxic people around you, develop calmness and humbleness inside of you.

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