MOst of these dudes on here dont know is that between the ages of 16-19 a girl is going threw her attention whore stage which means her little slut stage. All girls on planet earth has to go threw this stage even your mom, aunt, and grandma went threw it, just like every man has to go threw his player stage and then later we"ll settle down to the right chick.. Dont trip off of her because right now shes considered as a "JUMP OFF" and what that means is shes jumping off to dude to dude playing MUSICAL DICKS like a fucking circus clown.. DONT let her confusion confuse you brotha. DONT let her personal issues your fault .. shes going threw her stage so let her get it out her system on her own just like you need to get your player stage out your system.. Keep searching and hollerin at new girls and upgrade yourself and drop that bitch. Or charge her to the game and check her ass on that.. if she still playing games just drop her

LOOSE THE CHOOSIE SUZIE !

What do you mean by charge her to the game and check her ass on that?

Check her what problems shes giving you because you feel and getting disrespecting ! NO player or mack shall NEVER BE DISRESPECTED a player and mack shall always be RESPECTED with 110% respect if shes not gonna cooperate right with you. Drop her ass! its basically a altumatum.

I'd have to agree with chillz direction, drop her like a bad habit, she's more drama than you'd need.

I don't believe in ultimatums I like what you did, walk out move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Ultimatums grant them the power in the relationship regardless. Perhaps she'll come for you perhaps she won't but I guarantee those confused emotions will still be around.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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Confused feelings on her part? Meaning I can just return any time if I wanted to contact her?

You can certainly return contact but the context of the relationship completely changes, you end up appearing needy if you do it incorrectly, you'd have to do it after an extended period of time. A month or a few weeks, hey man just thought of you text/message and you can keep ongoing tactic, be sure keep it pleasant flirty (this reminded me of the conversation we were having that one times.... bla bla bla is a good start) and fun rather than serious, too much negative emotion will drudge up the current negative emotion she has.

This is a tread very carefully to get the girl situation, the key is to evoke her sexual and attracted feelings for you, without drudging out those negative feelings or coming across unattractive. Needy is unattractive, what you did granted you ALL the power in any possible relationship. If she wants you she'll contact you. If you go back on what you did, you relinquish the power to her and she gives you permission on any possible relationship. Now I'm not big on power in a relationship but in the beginning it is a little weird.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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Well her birthday is in 12 days. I was gonna send something like a picture of the galaxy an be like here's some space but I'd be remiss not to wish a lady a happy 20th. An just leave it at that. Suggestions?

your name is 2young2bcaring why u careing for this chick? dont give her anything for her Bday shes prolly expecting that cause she knows you"ll simp to her... Switch the tables. Let her BF or whatever he is do the buying for her dont waist not one penny on her. Im telling you dont give her nothing. And if shes curious why u didnt take her out or buy or anything thats where u put your game in but still dont have her make u feel obligated to buy her stuff that means she got u.. be above this hoe! playa. Dont be mr sweetguy after she deleted u on facebook, playing with your head, and still messin with the BF, thats "3 STRICKES" shes out in my perdiction. just lay back and play the feild and have her ass hit you up if shes really interested stop stressin over these hoes and hitting her up all the time that shows weak male characteristics have her ass hit u up. Sometimes its good to be cold blooded they respond wayy better at times especailly when they fucked up on you.

If I was you I'd move on. This girl Is a little more than I'd want to deal with. But if u think she's worth it here's what I'd do. Freeze her out for a week or 2 and see if she contacts you. And if she doesn't then you can contact her. Obviously she still likes you. She deleted you on Facebook because you hurt her feelings when you told her that she wasn't gonna hear from u again. If u want her back. That's what I would do. I bet she would contact u if u froze her out. I have a theory that its impossible to like 2 people at once. If u say you do, you only think you do. In reality you like one person for a couple hours, then the other person for another couple of hours.

So no one's approving the birthday message? lol okay I'll take the hint. You sure she won't take it as oh he's an a-hole now won't even wish me a happy birthday? and you all make some very good points. And if I froze her out, how long would she take or is there no time limit?

Is the birthday message a bad idea? I thought not contacting her is a bad idea. Isn't it a lose lose situation either way as far as the birthday is concerned?

Dude dont give her shit. Lay back and chill and have her ass hit u up... dont ever try to "WIN A GIRL OVER" that only lowers your confidence. Learn the art of moving on and moving on fast.

CHILLZZ!

You really think her ass will hit me up? Isn't it out of sight out of mind ??? And idk I already have another date two other numbers a few girls on my dick and a fwb so it's not like I'm lacking in female attention. I just not to sound beta kinda miss her.

12days is a long time in Pua...after youve ignored her for a further 10 days if she has contacted u in them or tried to then consider whether to send the happy birthday if she makes an effort maybe if not dont.

The reasons none of us mentioned you texting that message is because it can go horribly or great but the best way to go about things is to STOP talking to her. She is fucking with your head and you need to let it ride, honestly separation from her should be taken as a gift at this point. You need to stop doing anything with her.

Let me make this easy for you say she does leave him, starts sleeping with you, and then realizes she misses him so she leaves you again. Don't you get it? I've said this before and though it isn't always true almost always you can say A relationship born of infidelity future wreaks of infidelity.

Dude let me put this in perspective to start dating you she needs to MOVE OUT of her house, you aren't asking her to date you or just fuck you, you are asking her to move out. Leave this one alone it won't help you or her. Are you going to give her a place to live? That would be moving WAY too fast.

Honestly you need to maneuver away from this catastrophe before you hurt yourself immensely. Knock it off with this asking if it is ok, when you know it isn't you just want to hear it is.

The only message you should send her is this if you do which I highly recommend you don't send her anything. "Happy birthday, hope all is well." If she wants to say anything to you this gives her enough of an opening, at the same time it keeps you granting her a general statement. NOTHING MORE, or maybe just Happy birthday, but nothing else, more words show more emotion, 6 words shows you care without too much any more shows a lot of emotion is invested in the message.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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