Hey guys, I'm 25 year old guy, Im in my last year of college and never really had friends.girlfrnds or whatever. I have a very few friends and haven't really gone out. I wanted to know how to start. I know I should start small, but I never really knew how to do this. Any advice on how you guys got started becoming more social and whatnot. Any advice is appreciated.

You have to first be willing to expend energy. Without effort you'll get no results. A lot of people want change, but they don't want to actually do anything. They just want to wake up and have their life magically be how they envisioned it. But that will never happen unless you put in the work.

Next, get a pen and paper and write down a gameplan. What kind of lifestyle do you want to have. More male friends? More female lovers? A girlfriend? How do you think you'll be able to acquire those things? Just by going out to a bar every weekend? Or maybe you need a multi-pronged plan of attack.

Small chunk it. Write down a list of things to do that you can check off one by one. Like step one, find a wingman. Now you have a friend and a sarging partner. Step two, start going to one bar and one club every single week. Step three, personal improvement. Start improving your fashion sense and working out. Step four, learn game. Step five...you get the picture.

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I'd say it's about 10% learning, and 90% doing. Probably 90% of the guys on here are learning, but not actually going and applying it. They tell themselves they need to know more, do this or that etc before they can pickup girls.

Honestly, if you can get past the bitch butterflies, and just go talk to women, you're already miles ahead of anyone who sits and memorizes a routine.