Often times we rate females on a number system (rating).

Example:
Yo, Dude, that girl is a drop-dead gorgeous HB10!

I don't believe in 10s. The reason is because this is how the number system actually works:

When rating a female on her looks, you rate them 1-10. 1 being the worst and 10 being the best. But when you actually rate her, you have to rate her on how SHE stacks up to YOU. This means that when you rate her, if she is a 10, she looks just as good as you do.
I'm not saying be arrogant as all hell. What I AM saying is that you should think highly of yourself. I don't believe in 10s because no girl ever looks as good as I do.
This makes it easier to point out their flaws and to not be nervous around them.

These are my original thoughts. Made up by me.
All comments welcome.

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Hell of a thought but I believe in binary attraction, something I wrote about which really is just I'd like to fuck her or I wouldn't. Pretty simple, fuck rating systems all together as rating create statuses, statuses fuck with your mentality of being deserving or not.

Screw rating systems I'm over them. Every guy who I have met who had serious skills with women honestly didn't rate women, they would describe them and a lot of times end it with she is sexy. I don't think I've ever really met someone who really rated the women they talked to and was good with them, doubt I ever will.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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poeticlyskuac, I understand what you are saying and it's a very interesting look at things. You said 'deserving' though. my take on this is that I am always deserving of them. The rating system, for me, determines whether or not THEY deserve ME. That's why I'm a 10 and they are less.
In a way, it's kinda like your binary thing. If I'm macking on a 7 and I spot an 8, i'm obviously gonna go home with the 8.
Ratings are just for me to know which ones are more worthy of my time.

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The problem I have with this, is that it's just fake nonsense. If you're not superb looking, there are two things you can do. Accept it and focus on other areas of your life that will make you a more attractive person anyway. OR you can pretend you're really good looking and measure everyone up to you, in a deluded world where you're the best looking guy any girl is ever going to see.

You're not. I'm not. There will always be a better looking lad for them to go after - in the same way that I might find one girl to be a '10' you might only find her a '9' because she's blonde instead of brunette or whatever, girls will be the same. So even if you were an actual '10', not every girl will think you are. So why pretend you are? Why not just be comfortable with yourself?

And even so, you're still essentially using the rating system in exactly the same way (ie; 1 is an ugly girl, and 10 is a beautiful one), you're just adding the extra element that you're at the top of the pile.

Assuming that most people would only fuck a girl who was perhaps a '6' or more, you should be treating every girl between 6 and 10 the same. It doesn't matter whether she's a 6 on a normal scale, or a 6 on a scale where you're at the top - essentially you are still differentiating between different levels of fuckability. Why?

If a girl is 8 (so 2 below you on your scale) would you treat her differently to a girl who was a 10 (equal with you on your scale)? Well, presumably you would because she's higher on the scale. If you wouldn't treat her differently, then she's not a number, she's fuckable or not.

I don't like the concept of 'more worthy of your time'. Why is she more worthy? Like I said - you should be treating any fuckable girl the same. As soon as you start concentrating on one more just because she's better looking, you start giving her power and risk coming across as needy. Like I said - fuckable or not. That's it.

Having an unfaltering self-worth is very important but feeling or more specifically telling yourself you are a 10 doesn't change reality as 7000 was pointing out. The reality for you to think you are BETTER than most women will make you good with them is WRONG. Have you ever had a conversation with someone who talked to you like they were above you? It is a very UGLY trait and most of the time the only person who considers you a 10 is yourself.

If you think believing you are better than woman and having a condescending nature will get you women you may be correct, damaged birds trying to prove themselves to you will be your collection of women you get though. You won't get good women because good mentally attractive women go for guys with genuinely attractive traits.

I am on the very same page with 7000 fuckable or not, binary attraction dude. That is what you need to adjust to get over you feeling you are more valuable than anyone and you'll end up getting a lot more skill with women. I know when I got past status mental wars I actually got A LOT better with women.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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