Hey guys, thanks for letting me join this forum.

Been in a relationship for most of my life with my one itis. Broke it off when I found I've given up my identity and lost my my idea of what a man should be, or at least my dad's idea, it matters to me.

I've always liked approaching people and being social, but have always been an AFC and said things ike, "she must be gay" or " she must be a biznatch" and never really thought about there being truly a game out for guys like me to master.

I met a natural when I was 18 y/o. He was good looking tall and constantly stole women from by buddies. He's now dating a famous hong kong movie star and taking a bunch of STD medications. He taught me one day just by saying "hey, just watcha nd do what I do." So i did, I bought the smilar clothes her wore, the same shoes, and all I ended up doing was become a wanna be. I attracted girls, but always messed it up duirng the comfort phase.

It still is a problem now.

I've never been to a boot camp or had a real PUA teach me the tricks of the trade, but I would love to; the only problem is it costs too much for most programs. I borrowed books and dvds, cds and have pretty much been an armchair recovering AFC.

Thanks again for letting me post and reading my stuff, I need all the help I can get!

Welcome to the forum!

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