Hey guys

So I'm sick of dealing with flakes on POF and OKC,
Now considering paid sites they are purported to have equal ratio and attract only the HBs who are serious about going out because otherwise its just waste of $$.

Anyone have any encounters on there, is it good for 20 something male or just a place where golddiggers HBs trying to find 40 y/o+ upper income success stories they can marry so they can be stay at home mom?

i met my last 2 girlfriends on Match. The women on there are more invested into the idea of meeting someone, as they are paying. and also because it is a paid site, the women on there are generally more successful people, so they have money, careers and seem to be more grounded.

I have met people on POF, but never anybody that deemed eligible. And the response rate is greatly reduced!

POF DOES have more women on it! but when you consider that the majority of those women are only on there for validation and have NO intention of meeting up with someone, it all evens out!

But won't the career having HBs only look for upper income males who live in the cities?
Because I read HBs never date someone who is the same or lower success level, they only want to date up.