So after reading and watching loads of material, I was out at a house party last night and I noticed some problems with my game.

I try now to hold a conversation which i think i'm getting better at, BUT i tend to linger too long after the conversation has died out.
Also i opened up about 3 sets last night but while we had a good convo i couldn't escalate to a kiss close.And some dude who opens up one of the sets is making out with the girl less than 15 minutes into the convo. I KEEP WONDERING WHAT THESE GUYS SAY TO BE ABLE TO KISS CLOSE.....

I did number/facebook close but taking the convo to a sexual area is just my main problem. Its like im too shy to even do it.

ALSO HOPE IM POSTING IN THE RIGHT FORUM

Insecure/confused/AFC guys wait for opportunities to close girls.
Secure/alpha/pua guys CREATE opportunities to close girls.

It's that simple. It's not what the guys are saying. It's HOW they are saying it and what they are doing. You admit that you are shy and insecure. That is the opposite of confident. And confidence is the ONE thing that almost every girl wants to see in a guy.

I started out like you. I always wanted to be the nice guy and never offend the girls. I figured that if I offended them then they wouldn't like me. That's partially true. But eventually I noticed how many guys are complete douchebags and treat women like shit, yet they were getting laid. So I started to become more cocky, more arrogant, more sarcastic, more aggressive, more of an asshole. Sure, it put off a lot of girls. But I ultimately got WAY more results being like that than I did trying to be a nice guy all the time.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Believe.

I've been in your shoes, I had the exact same problem..
But i was determined to resolve it and pushed my limits to max.. done a lot of mistakes until i figured it out.

Now I want you to visualize yourself standing in front of a hot girl and kissing the shit out of her. Seriously, imagine it in detail.. Imagine your success with every girl. Do this until you get your confidence in a working order. This is a way to trick your mind and get that shy thing out of you.

Another important thing is kino..
Do lots of touching before the kiss, so she gets used to you touching her..
Touch her wherever u can and whenever.
example:
hugs, arm brushing, standing close to her, high fives, touching her jewerly etc etc
After all the touching you will see subtle clues that she gives you, for example, she will be more open with her body, start touching you and similar which all mean KISS ME!
Then it's time to ACT!

Best of luck

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Heat

The only way to start escalating is to actually START ESCALATING, with time you quickly learn when and how.

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