Met a girl at a bar before I went to visit fam.She text me and we got to know each other while I was in Oregon visiting.We got really close to the point of calling each other babe and things like that.
Then when I cam back we were suppose to chill on New Years and she tells me she wants to wait and hang when we aren't drunk. So I was like whatever and told her I am not going to play games. she got really upset and told me to just come. I said I made other plans and keep my word when I make plans. Then she kept apologizing and saying she was just nervous. then she hit me up at around 1 am telling me she wanted me to come over. I was hesitant but I did.

I get there she hugs me and says she is so excited I am there, I kiss her and we go inside and start making out. She kept saying how bad she wanted me. So we ended up hooking up and she said finally and I said finally what? She tells me finally someone who is good in bed. So we cuddled and passed out. The next day she invites me to her parents and I met a lot of her family. Then I tell her I am going to take off and she says ok and walks me over to my truck and I kiss her goodbye. But when I was talking to her when I was in Oregon she was wanting a relationship and now she says she isn't sure what she wants. It seems like she has been somewhat closed off and blowing me off so I am thinking I should freeze her out.

Any thought?

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It's On!!!

"She sounds like she honestly wants a relationship with you. That's why she didn't want to hang out on year years, she was scared if she was drunk, you would fuck her, and move on to the next girl. Now, she's on the verge of giving up trying to make a relationship work with you, and regrets fucking you on new years, she feels cheap."

That's her thoughts. If you actually want to be in a relationship with this girl, just show her you're not someone who's just going to blow off. Keep doing what you were doing.

If you can't see yourself tied down right now, don't hurt her and move on. Please.