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| Gurren | PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2013 6:56 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue Mar 20, 2012 1:30 pm Posts: 35 | | Hi , question related when to close.
If i met a girl on night's out , made connection kino'd assume i did shit right. Didnt kiss close tho.. then got phone number and now i text her , what should i set up as date? Is going out for a drink or movie or whatever needed? or can i go inmediatly for her/my house?
Normally i get a drink with her but i wondered if i could skip this part?
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| detox75 | PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2013 7:09 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Oct 08, 2011 4:56 pm Posts: 1904 Location: Portland, OR | | If your an accomplished PUA or an in demand social superstar, and you have so many prospects that you can afford to lose some to increase your efficiency, then ya, just invite them over to fuck.
Assuming your not that booked with chicks then its important you set the right tone. Dinners and movies tend to set the provider/courting suitor frame. Inviting them straight over lets them know your just trying to fuck them straightway without qualifying them or being, forming rapport or being a challenge. As I said you can get away with this if you have enough value but I doubt you do yet.
Invite her out for a drink in a quite lounge for a drink at night. This allows you to practice in running game and the frame is ambiguous enough not to deter her if she has any real interest.
Finally just because you felt her up the first time dont go in assuming to start where you left off
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| puaninja | PostPosted: Wed Jan 02, 2013 2:29 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Aug 10, 2012 12:27 pm Posts: 2817 | | You can feel her out a bit and try to see what she's down for. Tell her you are bored and that you are not sure if you want to go out because it's cold and rainy, and that maybe you just want to watch a movie on net flix or redbox or something. Then ask her if she wants to hang out. If you start to detect that she is reluctant to go to your place or invite you to hers, then casually backtrack and tell her that you'd be down for meeting somewhere for a drink or food. Give her the impression that you don't really want to go out and do a bunch of shit, and that you'd rather be home, but don't make it seem like you're unwilling to take her out somewhere first. _________________ “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn
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