Hi All,

I've got a dilemma which I would like to share and get your thoughts.

I've been married for half a year now and have been a keen follow of the PUA forum before and after wedding, just to keep my game tight.

I thought I was doing well until recently I realized my wife seems to show IOI to my younger brother as well pays a lot more attention to him than pre-wedding. I visit my younger brother every couple of weeks and generally we are in a group situation within family.

I know my younger bro is a good looking lad and he has good game. He likes to be center of attention whereas I'm more laid back.

Something tells me I'm being a bit Beta and am jealous of the attention he is getting from my wife. The other thing I am thinking she is not adequately stimulated by my game as she is constantly with me and is open to other game.

What advice wold you give me on how to make sure I'm the alpha in her eyes? What am I doing wrong that he is doing right?

Yes, you're being a bit jealous of the attention he is getting from the wife. He's your younger brother, I bet he took half of your parents attention away from you too.(joke(kinda))

Whats with the lingo? You're worried she'll get bored of you and leave you for another man. Maybe not your bro, but somebody. It's normal to feel like that SOMETIME. Is it a a genuine concern?

I can't say what I would do to be the alpha in her eyes. She's your wife; give it to her like she likes it, know what I'm sayin'? I don't think it's a mater for him doing it right, and you doing it wrong.

On another note: What would you be thinking about your wife's hot sister if she had one? Are you okay with it if it's just a lil fantasy?

Not worried about her leaving me for another man cos I know she loves me and gives her undivided attention when I'm with her. If she does leave fine, but while she is with me I don't like other guys getting attention from her.

As an alpha I'm more concerned that I'm being AMOG'd by my annoying younger bro.

and I don't think about my wife's sister, even though she is quite pretty because I'm more concerned with her giving me attention.

Does anyone think it is a good idea to confront her, as in sit down and have two way convo about it or is that just going to get the boat rocky?

If she leave you fine...okay

Not worried about her leaving you for another man---"not adequately stimulated... open to other game"

If you don't want to be AMOG'd by your annoying younger bro why not try giving him a nuggie til he says uncle.

It's good you don't think about your wife's sister-wink face, you're a better man then I.

Is it good idea to confront her? go for it.

Dude, you haven't helped with your response, I was looking for a bit more than that.

Do I just ignore it or do I battle with my own game (which naturally laid back)?

Do I confront or will this just leave a bitter taste in the mouth?

You're right, sorry, that wasn't helpful. It's my opinion that confronting her at this point is overreacting. And you should battle back with your own game. I'm naturally laid back too, and with my particular sense of humor I would go with something like.

"I see you like my brothers attention...... you know I taught him everything he knows "
"He never really got it down, but he puts his own spin on it, and he makes it work for him"

if she calls me out for being jealous "awww are you jealous honny?"

"I'm not jealous.... and he sweats a lot.hahaha"

Way more fun then making it an issue. AFCs get jealous, men get competitive.

Langlo provided perfect advice, finally.

He's right, AFC's get jealous. Alpha's get competitive.

If you're insecure, it could be that the joke(sort of) was right on the money. Figure out if you have any envy of your bro in you and work that out before you ever do anything else.

That's a good one Langlo.

I don't believe to have any issues with my bro, he is just annoying little bro which everyone has.

Anyway, I've decided that I'm going to watch this space by observing her behavior and up my game at the same time. The problem with serious relationships is you can't always get away with being cocky/funny because women start lose respect. They want serious dominant men who are assertive and sometimes that means your not the funny one and someone is, so you don't always have the attention on you.

Remember not to watch, and observe too much. It'll be hard to get her attention if you're on the outside looking in. But I get what you're saying; keep an eye out.

I'm observant anyway, that's how I noticed in the first place so should be no problem to keep my game up and notice her behavior.

Ok, need some more advice on this.

I kind of let on that I know my wife was giving my younger brother attention and now she knows. She started acting really awkward around him now, trying her best to avoid any eye contact with him.

It kind of took it of my chest and it seems to be more her problem then mine. She probably does think I'm a bit insecure / jealous but she subtly said there was not a problem.

The thing now is because she is acting awkward around him it's made me think what I observed before was genuine interest in my younger brother on her part.

How do I play this from now?

My thoughts are just carry on as normal and not pay too much attention to her when my younger brother is around.

do as your younger brother did to get the attention of your wife LOL

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That's the plan but I have my own style.

I think the main difference between us is that he can BS a lot about nothing and most of it is just stuff he hasn't got a clue about. Whereas I do more one liners which are funny / teasing and throw in an occasional story every now and then. The problem I have is BS about stuff I don't really have a clue about, it's not very sincere.

All is fair in love and war.

Confronting her would only show your insecurity on the matter.

It's your younger bro, it's not like he or she is going to cheat on you. I wouldn't worry too much. Maybe she is giving him attention because she wants your family to like her, thus doing if for you. There could be many explenations.

I wouldn't worry about it. Even if there was legitimate interest, look at it this way, it basically means that had you two not met and gotten married, and she met your younger bro, she'd have an interest. But, she met you and married you first, and unless she's really, really unhappy with you and what you bring to the table, then there is no problem.

One thing I would do, and this is just me, but I'm a horny fucker, so I really like getting in a girls head and helping give them crazy mind blowing orgasms. If she really has and interest in your little bro, I'd try to get her to open up in the sack and open her mind. Let her play out the fantasy in front of you and tell you about it, or help her imagine it.

My wife always had a thing for my best friend. I don't even remember how it started, but I would toy with her fantasy while we were doing it, and it got to the point that I could almost make her orgasm on demand. She could never describe it, and was always sort of ashamed of how it would make her cum, but I think for her, the fantasy was that my best friend would enjoy fucking her so much that he couldn't stop doing something that is just completely wrong in every way. I would tell her she'd have to do shit for him that his girlfriend wouldn't do, but that I knew she could do it and he'd love fucking her for it and wouldn't be able to quit and it would be our dirty little secret. She'd be coming before I could get all that out of my mouth, and they were just ridiculous orgasms. She never did fuck him, and never would because she's too passive, but when all this came out in the sack, she just went nuts, and I loved it.