| Hey bro, I'm right with you. I'm 34, just got out of a brief relationshit, and I'm going out daygaming tomorrow night (yes, you can daygame at night). It's a street fair and usually it's mostly young people there. I n-closed an 18 y/o there before, and k-closed a 21 y/o. I really didn't give a fuck about their age as long as they are legal.
My strategy tomorrow will be to talk to every set like they are some girl that I used to go to highschool with, had a slight crush on, and now I've run into them out of the blue after many years. "HI there! It's so nice to see you, how have you been?! Where do you live? What are you doing for work? What are you doing for fun? Let me tell you about me and all the stuff I'm doing now. Isn't this great that we're together right now, getting to know each other!?"
If you are actually excited to see someone, it will show in your voice. You'll maintain high energy and seem more interesting. You'll also be more "in the moment" with the girl. If you met a girl you used to like that you hadn't seen in 15 years, do you think you or she would become bored within the first 5 mintues of your conversation? Hell no! You'd be bantering back and forth enjoying yourselves. You wouldn't be worrying in the back of your mind if this girl is going to tell you to piss off. You'll be confident, genuine, and happy to see her and not second guess yourself.
Try to cultivate that type of dialogue with your sets. Don't worry about nervously spouting off some opinion questions or cheesy stories. Just be in the moment and show genuine interest and excitement. _________________ “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn
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