HI guys..
So i met this girl on a dating site.. First date was a pub dinner,second date invited to her place for takeaway and drinks.. Great rapport between us, flirty cocky funny attraction...
Third date, she invited me to her place to cook me a steak dinner followed by a drink session, fun on the wii..

Heres the dilema.. She asked if i wanted to stay and i said whatever is cool taxi home or crash.
Great meal and desert music and fun and laughs on the wii..Just an overall good night..After MANY drinks we escalate into talking about sex and she mentioned she has friends who are married and have beeen chatting for 1 year about having a 3 some with another girl and wanted her to do it...She said its supposed to be happening this friday coming but shes still a little unsure to do it...

This girl has no inibitions and has had many boyfriends and dabbled in girl on girl before in the past...
WE are not exclusive of course just after 3 dates and going with the flow she likes to use, which im fine with,( im far from needy but looking for something REAL) she says shes looking for the right guy to settle with but she apolagised telling me about the 3 some being tipsey and all..(if it happens)

Strangely enough i got passed the shock of WTF, shes looking for the right guy AND dating a guy but may end up screwing her friends because at the moment shes single...
I ended up giving her a massage which led into great sex last night and again in the morning,mostly my escalation but i just thought screw it and go for it...
It seems kind of awkard but we went with her sister to the movies the next day and didnt seem to make a difference much spending more time and shes keen to get together again...
Im just really confused how to handle this situation...Im kind of thinking if she goes ahead with the 3 some im definatly not keen to date this chick long term!!! But I like her and i know she likes me, how do i show here im not willing to condone shaggin around even wether we are exclusive or not.....Help this so confusing?????
I have a FB i can go back to at any time,is this a good idea to tell the potential GF ??

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Go hard or Go Home!!!

Is this a situation too difficult to answer??

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Go hard or Go Home!!!

No you're thinkin about it way too much. What do you care if this chick who's single has a threesome with two people you don't know? You said yourself you're not exclusive.

If you want my advice, set some boundaries. If you want her all to yourself, tell her you want to be mutually exclusive which means both of you only sleep with each other. If you can't do that then stay single and have what fun you can with this chick.

Depends what you want more, a relationship or casual sex with multiple people.

Just sit her down, explain what you want and see how it goes. Good luck

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I believe in fate and karma. Both are forces of immense power, but do you know what else is?

You are.

I would have HER pull YOU a threesome, seems like the logical answer. Win,Win

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

It's only a matter of what you want her to do. If you don't want her to do the threesome with them, then convince her how bad of an idea it is. Tell her that a friend of yours tried that once and the guy in the threesome gave the girl genital warts. If you tell her a worst case scenario of what could happen, and she still does it, then she was going to do it anyway regardless of how you feel about it.

If you feel that she is too slutty or adventurous for your tastes simply because she told you she was thinking about it, then maybe this girl is not gf/marriage material for you, and instead just a good side fuck.

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