Ok so I've been seeing this girl for about 4 months or so, she is very attractive and gets a lot of male attention. A few days ago this guy she knows from a friend started texting her telling her he needed someone to talk to (about his recent break up blah, blah blah) and said they could only talk at his house. She called me and asked what I thought, I told her that he likes her and is going to try to get her in bed (pretty obvious). Yesterday she met with him, and had dinner and talked, she told me it was weird and he was acting aloof and wouldn't even make eye contact with her. When she was dropping him off he went for a hug then tried to kiss her. Then proceeded to tell her all the dirty things he wanted to do to her. As soon as she got home she called me and told me everything that happened, I basically replied with "I'm not surprised, we both knew what he was up too", then told her that it sounded like a creepy night but really what did she expect. No jealousy I was very calm and joking around about the situation. This guy has been texting her non stop, and when she tells me about it I don't react. She is now pissed off at me and won't talk to me because I seem like I don't care. I told her she got herself into this mess and that I told her what would happen. She just cancelled out of our new years plans and says that she wants to be alone... which sucks because we just finished booking a trip to Dominican. Confused as shit, I can tell this dude really upsets her (she calls him the disgusting troll) but what am I to do about a situation she got herself into, smash his face in? That's not going to accomplish anything, could use some advice or a little clarity anyway...does she just want to see me jealous?

I honestly have no idea what you can do man. I am not posting about that. But what I am gonna say is;

Maybe think about your gf seriously for a second. Is that honestly a good reason to break up with someone? Absolutely not. Has she stopped talking to him? Highly unlikely. So she has dumped you, stopped talking to you, and kept contact with "creepy guy" who she supposedly denied.

Now this is where you have to think hard. To me, the only way this makes sense is she didn't deny him. I would be willing to say that she did something with him, whether it was just a kiss, or all those dirty things. From experience, if a gf dumps you very suddenly with no real good reason and just wants to be alone, following a close friendship with another guy, she fucked him. Maybe she isn't as honest and pure as you think?

I would be extremely pissed if my girlfriend canceled an expensive vacation at the last moment due to drama about some other guy. My advice would be to have a very serious talk with her about her expectations in this relationship. Why did she go to this guys house, what exactly happened there, and why should this affect your plans together? Without jumping to conclusions, one likely explanation is that she cheated on you, so you should be prepared for that.

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This smells a bit to fishy!!

Read this carefully..."WATCH WATCH SHE DOES, NOT WHAT SHE SAYS"!

Essentially she is calling him an ugly troll to you. I hate him bla bla bla...

If she really disliked him then she wouldn't be still texting him and meeting him. Even if she hasn't done anything yet she sure is thinking about it.

Ill bet you he has invited her out for New Years...

The best case senario is that she is flirting to make you jealous as she is insecure. This still needs punished. I'd be straight with her. I'd phone her and tell her that your pissed that she cancelled your special plans because of drama caused by another dude. I'd say that none of this is my fault and I prefer drama free relationships.

I feel that you have not set your boundaries too well! Be a man and tell her what your comfortable with and what your not comfortable with! If she still doesn't fall into line then cut your losses as she will never fully respect your moral code.

I had to reread your post again. I think your girl is a freak. She found a little drama, and was a good enough girl to tell you about it. She made a freak decision to enjoy the drama, then got upset that you didn't join her in it.

I think my advice to you is to find someone better. Seems to me that you told her what was going on, she was drawn to the excitement or drama of someone trying to get her in bed, and participated in it. Now she's immature enough to be upset with you for not engaging in it as well.

I think I'd try to find someone better.