| So, we're around 19-20 of age and live (yes, live) on a school together. I don't remember the english term for this, but I'm sure you follow me. For the last month i've put my game up, and won this incredible girl that so many of both my friends and "foes" of mine want. I thank the book "tao of badass" for this, as well as my rapport skills and increasing confidence. I'm doing very well for the time being, though I'm bored as hell now, being home for Christmas (me and her apart). This gives me time to read and learn though, as I love psychology.
So... Now she likes me, and I like her. I keep her interest in tact very well (flirt with her, tease her, seduce her, never project neediness and constantly build rapport). I've fingered her, given her several orgasms... not had sex yet, tho'. I've wanted to save that magic tension and release it after the holiday, by doing da big thing yo!
But... what to do now? How to maintain the relationship, evolve it and constantly build massive amount of tension and love? All of advice is appreciated. I want to nail this relationship, as we have become very caring (in love?) for eachother.
My second biggest problem, is that i acctually get scared (nervous) now to approach her among friends. I act to cool, or maybe even pissed, and need to find a way to control this. It's some sort of anxiety I'm not used too. I think I'm scared of being attacked/mocked by friends which can lead to me losing her. Silly thinking - especially considering i have good friends and a great confidence, but it's there in the subconscious anyway.
Tension builders:
- Almost nobody at the school knows we're on game, and she likes that tension. She has never been in a relationship before nor had sex, and I can tell she is afraid as well as intruiged by the thought of being caught in public and among friends. It's a great tension builder for me, because I can give her minimum attention among our friends (but still give); building interest and curiousity, and then release some of that tension when we're together - alone.
- Not had sex yet. This is my ase, because she is new to all of this. Virgin, and never been in a relationship.
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