There's basically this polish girl who i think is a perfect 10(well i think so anyway) in my class and i get eally nervous whilst talking to her. Im good with other girls and everything and can get their number easy but this one girls confidence makes me nerous somehow :/. Anyways, i want to show her this little secret park ive found near our college where its got the perfect shit there(statues, pond, flowers, even a fuckin little waterfall) and i know how to escallate from there but i dont know how to get her to come with me. Any advice would be perfect, thankyou and hope to hear from some of you soon.
Also, im leaving the class after like 2 where i sit near here only 1 lesson so I have a limited time to get her number and take her to the place.. thanks again guys! you men are life savers


Thanks guys, I really appreciate it

Influence.

I did this once. Asked her to come for lunch, and allow me to set it up. Then suggested to go to a park that I scouted before.

You can do a picknick, or it is winter where you live?

Something similar happened to me recently with a Russian girl. Nothing happened at the end as i was not able to initiate (We talk but we are just friends).

You can go direct as you have no time. Stop her after class. Be CALM. Say -- I think you look cute and I've been wanting to talk to you but did not get the chance. But I think you look absolutely stunning and we should go out sometime. I would like to get to know you than just admire you for your looks. (This is not typical GAME/ PUA style. try to add/delete a few words)

IF she's cool / finds you cute she will hesitate or give you a blank face. So its a yes. Give me your number and I'll let you know when we can go... if she says no -- Try to convince saying - I don't want to have an impression that you're just a hot woman. Are you any fun too. Neg a bit jokingly.

Youtube this guy - sasha daygame.. I tried this on a few women didn't get any numbers but gained a lot of confidence. And got positive responses.

Remember you have nothing to loose. And why would she go out with a random guy from class to the waterfall ?? Come clean. Go for coffee try to escalate from there. Tell her you would like to show her this park near the school that has a waterfall.. Grab the coffee and start walking..

Saying this might need some balls. But you don't want to regret not saying anything at all !!!!

Mr.Marlvin - Yes, unfortuantely it is winter down here in London but i guess I just have to ask her directly as i have only one chance

mke707 - Thanks a lot for the advice, also i see the best way to ask her is directly, il start the game with her after i atleast get her number successfully

Thanks a lot guys, any other advice to top up will also be extremely useful

Influence.

But i was just thinking that doesnt that go against everything game is? I mean complimenting her consistently wouldnt make me any different from any other guy who has tried it with her I think atleast? #
Also can i not use my last day in the class as a way to keep in touch with her..iim just dropping the course, its not the last day for the whole class soo?

Thanks again guys
Appreciate it
Influence.

Are you going to see her again ? If yes then don't do this.

If not. How are you planning on getting her number..

You can't exactly run the 5 question routine or something similar because you are not in that kind of SPAM.

You need to be quick to avoid wasting her and your time. You cannot go and say - I want to take you out !!!

Think what would be the best way you want to be approached in a similar situation.
And you're not complimenting her "consistently". You say what you feel. Be honest that you find her attractive (not sexy) and you are confident enough to get her number and take her out. Take the number and leave. Then start playing the game you want to.

You can't go and use an opinion opener after class randomly and get her number.

If you show you have confidence she will not say "no" unless she is very uptight!!!

-- One of best buddies is Polish. He said the girls are very religious and not easy for casual fuck! So even if you get rejected you will have more confidence next time to go upto a 9 and start a conversation.

Congruence in speech and body language with Confidence is all you need.

After my last class, i will never see her again but there is a slight (like really slight) possibility that i might walk past her in college .. that is the reason i want her number.
I was thinking of being direct about the number but not giving her a direct implication that im attracted to her as of yet (or should i still say that i find her gorgeous?)
yes the opinion opener wouldnt work after class but what about before class when we're waiting for the teacher but bear in mind i only have around 2-3 minutes before class to talk to her. I dont want casual fuck with her, well i do but i want something else on top of that
true say about the confidence
Thanks again man, you are really helping me out here
hope to hear from you soon..

trust me i've been in the same situation!! with 2-3 minutes before class with the girl i mentioned earlier

After class say - hey, i've been wanting to talk to you but you know how it is. everyone is in a rush at college. i find you cute and think we should hang out sometime. Get to know each other!

The more you think about it more nervous you will get. GO FOR IT or stop thinking about it! and concentrate on other women / things in your life. There are plenty of better looking girls than her, Don't blind yourself

What you're doing is overthinking the possible outcomes and trying to rationalize it to convince yourself. Like -- "i will never see her again but there is a slight (like really slight) possibility that i might walk past her in college"

If you ask her directly for the number why would she give it you ? build rapport and then ask ! talk to her .. and then == i need to run for my other class. how about we exchange numbers as this is my last class ! try to think of something creative to tackle the situation.

Its either do or die. But in this case its by doing, its the confidence you will build to talk to other women.

Do you know what i call people like you?

I call people like you BEASTS!

I realized how much I am overthinking it and looking like a prickk and sprung :/ so im just gonna follow your advice and deal with the outcome

Thanks man, really appreciate it
Thankyou

Influence.

Hey sorry but i was just wondering what did you mean by be creative about the situation? how?

Thanks again
Influence.

creative in the sense - don't say exactly what i wrote. try to add your style of talking that will make you more comfortable in front of her and less nervous.
Its just an example how to go about it.

I suggest not be cocky. Eastern European women don't get the sense of humor and feel disrespected. That's what I feel. Be polite but not needy!

Oh okay i understand youu.. i could also speak about family relationships as ive heard polish girls are extremely close to their mums..

But what do you think about what im planning to do?
-Build Rapport
-Comfort
-a real slight sexual escalation
-number close reason being im not gonna be in class and would like to take her to the park and keep in touch. (I'll mention the park in a story telling way then say to her 'I need to take you there! ' ..

How about that?

Thank you
Influence.

dont mention park . talk about a coffee place.

when you meet her at the coffee place say there is this park nearby that has a waterfall. grab the coffee and take her there

well i recently number closed her. Texting was going and complimented her like twice just to indicate that im not interested in being friends but more. Then i arranged a meetup but then something came up so the text went like this:
Me: Hey listen, i really wanted to see you today but something came up so i wont be able to make it. Sorry..?
Her: Its fine, im not in college anyway, haha :p
Me: aha youre such a clown :p i still wanna show you though (i found this small cute little park and used it to organise meetup with her)..pick reliable day for both of us why didnt you come?
Her: I did came for my first lesson but forgot my assignment so i had to go back home x(ignored the rearrange meetup question)
Me: Bella youre boring me, lets play the question game we both ask eachther questions-duhh- but it cant be the same okay, you start
Her: Naah thanks il pass, im not into this kinda games ;d sorry mate x
Me: what kinds games are you into then? ;D

no reply, some girl i know said that she probably gotoffended whn i said 'youre boring me' and told me to text her; sorry if i said anything earlier that offended you, i was only playin
One day later, still no reply.
But now im thinking, i shouldnt of said sorry..not my problem if she took it seriously.. but how can i restart the interaction and get her interested again for a meetup and ill do it properly this time outside college.
please help//

You're kidding right?

"Bella, you're boring me" was awesome - i am actually thinking about using that line next time! The rest of the text however sucked BIG TIME.

This is what HB10 reads: "Please please you're so beautiful, please play a game with me where I ask question to you, you answer, we build rapport, go out for dinner and then I'll be all sweety creepy and needy for the rest of your life, please"

Don't ask questions, don't ask for permissions, if you want to play that game with her, just START THE GAME.