Others I can see do not share mine or your sentiment toostrong. But being given an STD is serious shit, like serious shit. I would rank it above cheating because if she cheats it doesn't (arguably) have the potential to affect your health and relationships for the rest of your life.

I'll be honest my girlfriend didn't shout at me or punish me when I made minor infractions on our relationship, and as a result I lost a lot of respect for her and a lot of attraction for her.
Instead I repeated my misdemeanors and some, because I knew I could get away with them with little to no punishment. (If my moral allowed it, I could of easily cheated on her multiple times with her forgiveness easily, because she loved me so much, because she didn't command the respect that she deserved. I felt like the child that tests the boundaries and realises that the boundaries aren't ever enforced)

I'm curious as to how are you going to punish her and for how long? (and I'm not talking S+M)
What are you going to change so she knows what she has done is really wrong? And that she should of shown you a lot more respect? i.e. increase the respect she has for you, if you can forgive and want to continue your LTR.

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so she's lied to you and had sex with you knowing full well she could give you an STD and you stay with her, with all due respect are you fucking kidding me!!!!!!!

If that was my gf i'd walk into the house, pack her stuff for her and throw them out onto the back garden without so much as an arguement, if she can lie about having an STD she can very easily lie about that other guy who likes her, you see my point?

If it was the other way around believe me she would dump your ass and your name would be mud with most of the women in your area, in other words you'd have a hard time getting laid again, if you insist on staying with her then at least make her work a little harder then giving you the puppy eyes and a quick blowie

i agree.

she essentially did one of the worst (if not, the worst) things a person can do to another human being.

the guy basically says "hey you big meanie, you gave me a disease".

she says "i am really really sorry" *and gets snuggly with him*

he says "awww geeez, okay i really really love you"

and all is well, end of story.

but, hey, who are we to stand in the way of true love?

if a person believes that certain actions are unforgivable, then that person would have to ask himself if another person lying to him and infecting him with a disease intentionally falls into that category.

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You do realize at least 50% of people will get genital HPV at one point in your life, and that most people aren't aware they have it. Men can't be tested for it, the only way we know is two low risk forms cause warts, that's IF you're immune system has trouble suppressing it. I'm suprised you can be into PUA and not get it, condoms dont protect against it 100%, it's transmitted via skin, so your balls or base of dick come in contact with infected skin, it transmits. All of you quit fear mongering..

http://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/stdfact-hpv.htm