Well i whent to the mall tonight, lookin all sharp ( I thought.) I had a Blue nadica Dress shirt with sorta checkerboard pattern on it, with a black Muscle shirt( Wife beater) underneath and Dark blue to white faded knee Southpole jeans. and Wheat Timberland with blue denim designer in the ankle. I peacocked wit some jewel like diamond stud and silver neckle/braclet. Wearin Usher Colonge.
Im 6'0even 155lbs. from what ive been told im a good lookin cat. But i have a baby face, and seem to attract more younger girls, far as i can see. Which TOTALLY SUCKS seeing im 21. Most of the girls round my age i don't notice the attraction too me or maybe im just not noticing it. i also thought maybe my styles to mainstream and outdated, not unique or something.
So what am i doin wrong here, Bad style? lol maybe its my hair cut or something dunno.(Buzzed)

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P.s would of put up some pics but I HAVE NO IDEA how to work my new carama, got it for christmas and gave up the first day.
I just take photos on my iphone but i cant take timed photos wit it. anywayz heres my myspace. doesn't show my style plus the default is kinda like 3 years old.

ww,Myspace,com/finejaybird

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~Jay

I have to say you sound like you were wearing what every 21yo is probably wearing. Am I right? What were you doing to distinguish youself from everyone else? What was unique about you? Pretend you're the girl you're trying to attract, what would she see about you that was different from the guys you hang out with or were inspired by?

You said you had a diamond stud and a chain and bracelet? Try rings, nice watches. I like the fake gaudy rolexes for $2 at the gas station. They're obviously fake up close and don't even keep time, but they make for an interesting conversation. Get some sun glasses. I like the huge mirrored cop glasses. You can get them for $5 at the kiosk in the mall. Good for me since I lose them quick.

As for your clothes dress like a 25yo or maybe even 30yo. The 21yo girls are probably looking older anyway. Put yourself in the group they're looking at. Wear suits, sport coats with nice pants. Invest in ties. You can own one suit but with 10 ties you have 10 different things to wear, 20 if you take your coat off. Spend your south pole, timberland, and nautica money on some banana republic, cole haan, and gucci.

Gucci ok, Banana Repo and cole haan dude. Big money in a pair of Shoes, I think the lowest i seen in there was like 230 for i think some sandels? i checked out the banana repo site, nothing really stylish on there site Alot of dress shirts and Polos (Which as you said before, ALL the 21 yr olds r wearing now.)

try dressing more successful. look around the internet you can find examples, i use askmen.com to get ideas then add a pua spin to it